Should I stay on dating app to meet a love one ? 41.5> 61

[ymoshietsu]

Hello everyone,

I'm on some dating app on my smartphone since 2 months now, and I haven't met someone yet. It seems that I can't find the girl I'm looking for. So I asked the Yi if I shoud stay on those dating / meeting app because It seems empty and a bit superficial... i'm skeptic to stay on those app

The Yi answer 41 DECREASE with line 5. In the background I had 61 INNER TRUTH

I think this is very clear, I have to give up on those app... Line 5 say that this sacrifice will be rewarded in the future ?

From caféausoul on the fith line" Because of your steadfast integrity, the way opens and great fortune rewards your Inner Truth. This is a very auspicious line showing that the work you have done to be honest and generous to others will be rewarded. A time of good fortune is emerging after testing. "

Hex 61 means to have confidence. I think the answer is pretty clear, Have confidence and faith, i'm on a good path you do the right thing by giving up those app..

What do you think about that ?

 

[moss elk]

Don't mention Yi in your profile,
or you might get people asking you to divine for them.

or maybe it is referencing all the casting you'd do about potential matches.

In any event, It does say Outstanding Opportunity.

 

[ymoshietsu]

I think it's referencing all the casting. Because i'm not doing some divination for them.. I can change my nickname if necessary ?

Thank for your answer, so the " Outsanding Opportunity " means app or not you'll find someone i'm looking for ?

 

[my_key]

Should I stay on dating app to meet a love one ? 41.5> 61

This divination is inviting you to bring balance back into your life and for you to connect again with the true you. Firstly, you will benefit from letting go of what is currently entangling you and then you'll be better placed to fully focus your energies on bringing things back to a place where you will feel more complete. Go for it!.

 

[ymoshietsu]

Should I stay on dating app to meet a love one ? 41.5> 61This divination is inviting you to bring balance back into your life and for you to connect again with the true you. Firstly, you will benefit from letting go of what is currently entangling you and then you'll be better placed to fully focus your energies on bringing things back to a place where you will feel more complete. Go for it!.

According to what you said My_key I need to stop being on those apps and just be myself ? Find a loved one is very difficult for me, this was the first reason for me to try those app.

 

[my_key]

According to what you said My_key I need to stop being on those apps and just be myself ? Find a loved one is very difficult for me, this was the first reason for me to try those app.

The words I wrote in response to your divination are not saying to me exactly the same as they are saying to you. Finding a loved one can be a journey of many twists and turns.

Good luck

 

[ymoshietsu]

The words I wrote in response to your divination are not saying to me exactly the same as they are saying to you. Finding a loved one can be a journey of many twists and turns.Good luck

Indeed but I don't know how to interpret correctly this divination.. What can you tell me from your point of view ? From mine in I see Decrease = Diminish Quality over quantity ? but with line 5 this is very auspicious... You are totally right, find a loved one is a journey...

 

[diamanda]

41.5 > 61 - this is one of the most auspicious casts. It shows how someone who hasn't got a particular something finally finds it. Since your question is 'should I stay on this app', I believe that yes you should stay on this app and you'll find someone.

 

[ymoshietsu]

41.5 > 61 - this is one of the most auspicious casts. It shows how someone who hasn't got a particular something finally finds it. Since your question is 'should I stay on this app', I believe that yes you should stay on this app and you'll find someone.

Thank you Diamanda for your answer !! So it's seems very good. Do you Think 61 INNER TRUTH as context refers to " listen to my gut feelings ? " " Act on a hunch ? I believe it but not sure if I'm right

 

[diamanda]

You're welcome!
I don't see the second hexagram as context, I see it as the future resulting situation. In 41.5 someone who is 'poor' and lacks resources, gets lucky and finds resources. 61 means right at the target, or right at the heart... also protecting, keeping in. I believe that here it describes a loving relationship.

 

[ymoshietsu]

You're welcome!I don't see the second hexagram as context, I see it as the future resulting situation. In 41.5 someone who is 'poor' and lacks resources, gets lucky and finds resources. 61 means right at the target, or right at the heart... also protecting, keeping in. I believe that here it describes a loving relationship.

Well the line say " If someone is marked out by fate for good fortune, it comes without fail. All oracles-as for instance those that are read from the shells of tortoises-are bound to concur in giving him favorable signs. He need fear nothing, because his luck is ordained from on high." So I really think about this hexagram someone will find me or I will find her ! Thank you Diamanda for your explanation

 

[ymoshietsu]

Hi @diamanda and all,

I did a new cast today following this old and I have asked the Yi "If it is a good decision to reinstall the app in order to find a good relationship ? "

I've got 25.6 => 17 I think it's say that even if I have a good heart, this is not the place to find what I seek, you shouldn't go against destiny and just following the natural course of things (17) Maybe this reading indicates something is already on the way (unexpected, the unknown) and I just have wait and follow ? I think this cast can say too " Ho you're going again on this app, you know this is not the right thing to do (line 6 don't act) but you are still going.

If someone can advice me on this cast, thank you

 

[moss elk]

Well, since you didn't listen to the first reading that advised of an outstanding opportunity....
What would be the good of a second reading, or more input from us about it?


Yes, there are many shallow, superficial
undeveloped (or otherwise disordered) people in the world, and subsequently, many of them are on dating apps. (there are many con artists and scammers and catfish on the dating sites as well)
You have to be wary of people and use your head, just like in real life.
Even the most innocent person, with a heart of gold, can encounter such difficulties. (like in 25.6)

ymoshietsu, were you recently burned in a relationship/breakup?
If so, have you relearned to trust yourself yet? (deleting the app seems like a panic move)

Here is what I see in this thread:
You got a favorable reading...
then ran away.
You got an unfavorable reading...
and said "oh. that must be correct!"

 

[ymoshietsu]

Well, since you didn't listen to the first reading that counseled to continue....What would be the good of a second reading, or more input from us about it?Yes, there are many shallow, superficial undeveloped people in the world, of course many of them are on dating apps. (there are many con artists and scammers on the dating sites as well)You have to be wary of people and use your head, just like in real life.

To be honest Moss Elk, I gave up this app because to me "dating app" was not the right way to meet someone (yeah I found superficial people and scammers as you said). Nearly 6 months has passed and I haven't find someone yet in "real life" so I was wondering if it was a good idea to back to the start...

No I'm totally free in my movements. My last relationship was 2 years ago. I don't understand why I can't meet good people, I trust myself but with the time and see that nothing at all happened, I felt like if something was wrong with me... (I think not, I just think it's a matter of right time right place ?)

 

[ymoshietsu]

Here is what I see in this thread: You got a favorable reading...then ran away. You got an unfavorable reading...and said "oh. that must be correct!"

Indeed, I made a bad decision and now with this new cast (25.6), I think it's probably over.

 

[moss elk]

I think you should rejoin a dating site.