Should I stay or go???

[manci]

Currently I live far away from home, in an other country where I got married over 5 years ago. I've been trying to make this country my home, but I still can not get used to living here. I am homesick a lot and I wish I could move back closer to my home.(I wouldn't move back to my home country because of the political situation, one has no future living there) My husband doesn't want to move so I am staying here for him and keep hoping that one day I will find myself here and I will have a great job and everything is going to be perfect.
I asked the Yi: What is the background of the situation? Why do I feel this way?
I got: 4 2.3. 52 (I must not think I know my situation. how does 52 fit in? I don't see the answer clearly.)

Also I asked for advice from the Yi about my situation. ( I feel I need a big change in my life. This place is not my home, I want to move closer to my family. )
I got 1 3. 10
Does it mean i don't see things clearly, I am confused what to do.
Which is true, I really don't know what first steps to take.

I need some feedback and help, I really want to see this clearly.
Thank you,
Manci :bows:

 

[willowfox]

I asked the Yi: What is the background of the situation? Why do I feel this way?
I got: 4. 2,3 > 52

The lines say that you are now in a subservient position, there is nothing you can do to change the way things are at the moment, you are in a situation that you don't like but you have the inner strength to put up with your unhappy conditions without making any serious complaints to your husband. You married a man without fully understanding what you were letting yourself in for, his surroundings and way of life are so different from what you were used to and now you feel lost.

Hex 52 says that you feel stuck and unable to move in any direction with your life.

Also I asked for advice from the Yi about my situation.
I got 1 3. 10

Before you decide to do anything you need a very long talk with your husband and tell him exactly how you feel, and that you are not happy with your present surroundings.

 

[manci]

Thank you Willowfox!
I did speak to him about it but we couldn't find a resolution, because he doesn't want to leave his country...
I will just wait patiently and see what life throws at me.
I appreciate your help and that you took the time to help me with my problem!

 

[willowfox]

I did speak to him about it but we couldn't find a resolution, because he doesn't want to leave his country...

No problem.

What you have to do is to keep your dream of returning alive, and slowly find a way in which to do it without upsetting your husband, Hex 10 speaks of a great need to becareful how you go about this, so be calm and cool and you will win in the end.