Clarity,
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United Kingdom
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I believed a lot in this story and I still believe in it, a lot has happened and now that we have finally opened up I don't want to abandon it like this, my commitment is there. The problem is that he told me that he had problems controlling these impulses and then told me that he felt bad because he understood that he had fallen in love with me. What scares me is that I don't know if this is enough for him to prevent it from happening again. However after that conversation I asked for "a picture of the two of us" and I got 53 unchangingStronglightning Hexagram 46 is very positive. However, it advises it will take time and patience. You won't be able to push the river. Ask yourself do you want to commit the time
46 is Pushing Upwards, Growth, Ascending beyond where you are now but that could be growing out of the relationship as much as it could mean developing within it.Is hexagram 46 unchanging trying to tell me that I don't have to be afraid and that things will turn out for the best?I apologize for my English, I'm Italian and I thank you all in advance.
So what impulses is he trying hard to control ? Is he violent or something ?The problem is that he told me that he had problems controlling these impulses and
Prevent what from happening again? What has he done ?What scares me is that I don't know if this is enough for him to prevent it from happening again
He defined impulses as mechanisms that push him to destroy what he builds in relationships, and therefore also go to bed with other women, which is what he confessed to me that happened while we were dating. This obsession of his with sex.46 is Pushing Upwards, Growth, Ascending beyond where you are now but that could be growing out of the relationship as much as it could mean developing within it.
What worries is it is not clear what impulses of his worry you so much, you haven't said
So what impulses is he trying hard to control ? Is he violent or something ?
Prevent what from happening again? What has he done ?
What I don't understand is what he means by applying will and effort. For me, in this always slightly confusing situation, my effort was to continue to believe in him and in us regardless of all the alarm bells. But sometimes I have the feeling that he wants a reaction from me, even an angry one, he wants to make me angry but I don't understand what he wants to achieve.I have just posted this 46 unchanging comment on another thread and thought it aptly spoke to your situation too.
Yi seems to be saying that it will not come easily but if you apply your will and undertake the effort required, one small victory at a time, then climbing this mountain is a possibility for you. 46 never hands anything to you on a plate.
... of course, other interpretations may sing to you more clearly.
Good Luck
It sounds quite a disastrous enterprise to imagine this person could ever bring you either happiness or peace.He defined impulses as mechanisms that push him to destroy what he builds in relationships, and therefore also go to bed with other women, which is what he confessed to me that happened while we were dating. This obsession of his with sex.
He has never been physically violent, but when he enters these distancing mechanisms he becomes abrupt and irascible, he behaves as if I bothered him. I think I understood that in those moments he thinks of going with other women to destroy everything.
Your original query is 'Should I trust?'What I don't understand is what he means by applying will and effort. For me, in this always slightly confusing situation, my effort was to continue to believe in him and in us regardless of all the alarm bells. But sometimes I have the feeling that he wants a reaction from me, even an angry one, he wants to make me angry but I don't understand what he wants to achieve.
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Yi seems to be saying that it will not come easily but if you apply your will and undertake the effort required, one small victory at a time, then climbing this mountain is a possibility for you. 46 never hands anything to you on a plate.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).