significance of dream > Hexagram 13?

[jp78]

I asked the I-Ching "What was the significance of my dream with X-person in it?

Casted 13....which means union or harmony. This is confusing because I asked another question.....


If I see X-person is it best if I stay away from her?

I-ching casted Hexagram 47.4 to Hexagram 29......I interpreted this as she may give signals, but no words of validity and if I progress with her then I will make a repeated mistake(hex 29) so it is best I stay away from this person?

 

[knotxx]

47.4 can mean making progress but in a very slow, stiff, awkward way--perhaps you are putting up a big stiff facade that slows everything down? (Staying away from someone you would like to approach is certainly one way of slowing things down.) But you still get there in the end.

13 suggests to me a simpler way -- people approaching each other in a friendly way, out there in the world.

 

[patro]

what did you dream?
there is the answer to understand 13.

 

[jp78]

i just saw her in my dream at a party. Thing is, this girl liked me while she was going out wiht someone else. I was too shy too approach her before and she got angry. Then I went to her apartment and apologized and told her Im sorry...she acted like nothing happened but when I did call, she never responded. I called twice and apologize and discovered that she was seeing someone else. I still care about her and was wondering why she appeared in my dream if she left my life. Is the right decision to stay away from her or she'll just do the same thing...make me thinks she likes me and not respond to my calls (hence hexagram 29: repeated pitfall) ???

 

[patro]

hex 13 answer to your question
"What was the significance of my dream with X-person in it?"
by saying you that you are looking for fellowship with her.

the dream show a play... where you are the hex 54
in the dream there are no feelings.... the dream talk about your desire and your attraction, your impossibility to stay connected with her.

did you kiss the girl in your dream? how and where.

 

[jp78]

no, i did not kiss her. I just saw her in my dream at some party hanging around....I think...I can't recall the dream well. I was just wondering is it in my best interest to stay away from her or be her friend? Or would trying to be her friend be a mistake because she would potentially hurt me?

 

[jp78]

no, i did not kiss her. I just saw her in my dream at some party hanging around....I think...I can't recall the dream well. I was just wondering is it in my best interest to stay away from her or be her friend? Or would trying to be her friend be a mistake because she would potentially hurt me?

 

[patro]

well.... this confirm my dream interpretation.