Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Thanks, yes, this sounds like him a lot. In some ways he's very rigid, which is really frustrating for me at times- I guess the people I've hung out with are more of free spirits, arts/music/healing types- if anything, I'M used to being the more conservative or rigid one, so it's weird for me to be in opposite situation. On the other hand he loves (when not mired in depression) being goofy or doing creative surprises. One time he made a whole treasure hunt with riddles and hidden stuff around my neighborhood for me. Other suprises that were really personal, not just a surprise. He does this super funny routine with his nieces and nephews for xmas. And is like the biggest fan of music that I know (including doing generous things to hook musicians up. I have never seen him even once not giving a street musician money. He did free photos and write ups for years of a local music scene he was in and has done some for my band too).The reading aside, his behavior isn't weird for a depressed person; however I have a male friend with similar traits such as extreme fear of catching Covid, not being willing to differ almost anything in his life, etc; who is on the other hand a trustworthy, kind person with beautiful creative ideas. Other than having depression for a long time, he is suspected to be on the Asperger spectrum according to himself.
Maybe your partner has this problem, maybe not. Just a thought.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).