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I couldn’t identify this in Hilary post about 63. I also use the book “the complete I Ching” by Taoist Master Alfred Huang and I couldn’t see that part either.Is there a romance going on?
63. After Completion
After marriage a smart wife
Takes thought of possible misfortunes
and protects herself from them in advance.
Thus I see the IC is telling you there is nothing going on but you were wise to recognize the possibilities and ask your husband about it.
Is he having romantic chats with her?
1. His Intention:
1.3 Talking about everything and anything.
1.6 Romantic chats however would be way too much.
58. Exchanging ideas
People enjoy meeting with their friends to talk.
Here the I Ching seems to be saying the conversations are not flirtatious, they simply enjoy the conversations. 58.2 specifically says there are no inappropriate conversations happening.
I see 2uc referring to “the receptive” like you said and also “responding”.Is he cheating physically?
2. The Receptive
The smart wife with wide experience
Recognizes the signs.
I think the I Ching is saying that if he were you would feel it in your gut and you would know it without a doubt, so here I think 2uc is saying nothing like that is happening.
Hi all, I have a tricky situation at home between my husband and his female colleague.
Basically they worked together but she left the company and now they speak with video calls on the phone for hours (like 2h plus) frequently and they do so only when I am not around (when either I m away for work, or when he is away for work). I started to become suspicious and I asked the oracle few questions.
I asked if there is a romance going on either physically and they meet or virtually via their video calls?
- I received 63 unchanged. But even here I am not sure how to look at it. It says that there is a beginning or a completion of something but the end shows disorder. Already fulfilled but in the end not yet fulfilled. A bit tricky to understand it.
Could be there is a friendship fulfilled and in the end there is no romance or cheating going on?
Or could be there is a beginning of a romance going on but that leads nowhere?
I didn’t understand the answer fully.
Because I struggled to understand the answer above I then asked more Q by splitting the above Q into 2:
(1) is he cheating physically by meeting her: response was 2 unchanged so I interpret that as a no matter is happening and nothing is coming out the Earth and
(2) is he having sexual / romance chats via these video calls with her: and I received 1.3.6-58 and again I didn’t understand the message hence I asked for a clarification and I got 58.2-17 …
At some point I gave up trying to understand all the answers above because I felt that I m not going anywhere and a day after I asked again the initial question above and I got again 63 but this time was 63.4 - 49.
Not sure what to understand and how to interpret. I am having a guess but since I am a beginning my knowledge is limited.
As a summary I received
63uc
2uc
1.3.6-58
58.2-17
63.4-49
I think I am driving myself crazy with the chain of questions hence I decided to stop and ask you for help now.
My husband says there is pure friendship and nothing is going on. After showing my uncomfortable feelings he decided to introduce me to her via one of their calls. However I still have this uneasy feeling.
Can you help me understanding what the oracle is telling me via the answers above?
Thank you very much.
Why are they talking for 2 hours when you aren't there?Hi all, I have a tricky situation at home between my husband and his female colleague.
Basically they worked together but she left the company and now they speak with video calls on the phone for hours (like 2h plus) frequently and they do so only when I am not around (when either I m away for work, or when he is away for work). I started to become suspicious and I asked the oracle few questions.
Well no one knows whether 63 here means yes he is cheating or no he isn't, how could they possibly ?I asked if there is a romance going on either physically and they meet or virtually via their video calls?
- I received 63 unchanged. But even here I am not sure how to look at it. It says that there is a beginning or a completion of something but the end shows disorder. Already fulfilled but in the end not yet fulfilled. A bit tricky to understand it.
Could be there is a friendship fulfilled and in the end there is no romance or cheating going on?
Or could be there is a beginning of a romance going on but that leads nowhere?
I didn’t understand the answer fully.
There is no answer nor any interpretation by anybody on this planet that will or can give you the facts here. Facts are what you need. More knowledge of the I Ching is not what you need. Anything that isn't fact is useless to help you here.Because I struggled to understand the answer above I then asked more Q by splitting the above Q into 2:
(1) is he cheating physically by meeting her: response was 2 unchanged so I interpret that as a no matter is happening and nothing is coming out the Earth and
(2) is he having sexual / romance chats via these video calls with her: and I received 1.3.6-58 and again I didn’t understand the message hence I asked for a clarification and I got 58.2-17 …
At some point I gave up trying to understand all the answers above because I felt that I m not going anywhere and a day after I asked again the initial question above and I got again 63 but this time was 63.4 - 49.
Not sure what to understand and how to interpret. I am having a guess but since I am a beginning my knowledge is limited.
I think one could easily say it's already happened, that's what is complete, they are already in relationship.I asked if there is a romance going on either physically and they meet or virtually via their video calls?
- I received 63 unchanged. But even here I am not sure how to look at it. It says that there is a beginning or a completion of something but the end shows disorder. Already fulfilled but in the end not yet fulfilled. A bit tricky to understand it.
Could be there is a friendship fulfilled and in the end there is no romance or cheating going on?
Or could be there is a beginning of a romance going on but that leads nowhere?
I didn’t understand the answer fully.
There is no clarification to be found. 58, joy in communication and openness - yes well they talk a lot but what about ? You must have some idea ?Because I struggled to understand the answer above I then asked more Q by splitting the above Q into 2:
(1) is he cheating physically by meeting her: response was 2 unchanged so I interpret that as a no matter is happening and nothing is coming out the Earth and
(2) is he having sexual / romance chats via these video calls with her: and I received 1.3.6-58 and again I didn’t understand the message hence I asked for a clarification and I got 58.2-17 …
I think you should give up trying to understand answers and start trying other means like listening to his calls. Sorry, I know it's underhand but it's the only way. There is no use people telling you he isn't doing anything with her, how would they know!At some point I gave up trying to understand all the answers above because I felt that I m not going anywhere and a day after I asked again the initial question above and I got again 63 but this time was 63.4 - 49.
Not sure what to understand and how to interpret. I am having a guess but since I am a beginning my knowledge is limited.
Wasn't he going to arrange a meeting a long time ago? Apparently that never happened?After showing my uncomfortable feelings he decided to introduce me to her via one of their calls. However I still have this uneasy feeling.
Hi @Liselle I did like you suggested and I started to look at the situation from another angle. I share with you here below:Mylife, what would you think of asking Yi for advice, what you should do, instead of what's going on? I
I know @Liselle i should stop now.Mylife, you really are driving yourself crazy with the "what's going on" readings
She is not in London at the moment. After she left her job where my husband works She went back home to her country. Not sure when she will be back.Meeting her is probably a really good idea.
You are right. Maybe I should stop.Yi can't literally say that to you in those sorts of words. It has to wrap stuff up in poetry and imagery, which is harder for us to understand.
She was single when they worked together and she is single nowThe four of you (she's married, too, is that right?)
Yes he was friend with her then. The frequency of their calls has changed (more often and always in private).But I do remember your earlier readings about your marriage, and how reassuring Yi was. Has anything changed since then? He was friends with her then, he's still friends with her - those readings are probably still valid.
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