Something that i have been upset about

[amy luisa]

the silence between me and my friend since march. it is a very different kind of feeling. i cast this Hexagram this morning. reading about it and looking at your past responses to others on the Hex's meaning. wanted to tell you also that on my Primary Hex (40 - Hsieh/Deliverance) the solid lines were red. please explain and thank you


Why is E pulling back/loss of communication from me?


PRIMARY HEX

Hexagram 40, Release
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Key Questions
If nothing could bind you, where would you go?
Do you ‘have to’? Who says?
Which path leads to where you want to be?

Oracle
‘Release. Fruitful in the southwest.
With no place to go,
To turn round and come back is good fortune.
With a direction to go,
Daybreak, good fortune.’



RELATING HEX
:bows:
19. NEARING

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APPROACH / COMING OF THE YANG / TO INSPECT
Lin indicates that under the conditions supposed in it there will be great progress and success, while it will be advantageous to be firmly correct. In the eighth month there will be evil.

THE GREAT SYMBOLISM
The trigram for the waters of a marsh and that for the earth above it form Lin. The superior man, in accordance with this, has his purposes of instruction that are inexhaustible, and nourishes and supports the people without limit.

 

[willowfox]

Hex40.1,4 > 19

Line 40.1 suggests that he is keeping still, verbally, as one there is not much to say that hasn't already been said, and secondly you should understand his situation well.

Line 40.4 suggests that he is fully occupied at the moment but sooner or later he will contact you again. so, the advice is to pay no heed to his lack of communication, as his apparent "pulling back" is only temporary.

 

[Trojina]

Did he tell you he was definately going to contact you ? is this the married guy ?

 

[amy luisa]

HI My Friend

My friend E (he is in LA) and i have communicated, but rarely now. as the last time we spoke we were talking about certain things. He has emailed me about a dream I had and we spoke about it. travelling and responsibilities are heavy on his mind, as the last time we spoke he was on a project from work. stressfull to say the least. so i believe, that this is what is going on. but still, remain freinds.

the problem i am sad about is that he always wanted me to open up to him, and he spoke to me about certain sensitive issues with him, but now, it has been a bit quiet. i am just concerned, as he would also be if it were me.

thank you for reading this for me...i wasn't quite sure what to make of it.
yes, i know he will contact me, hopefully soon - i left a message on his vm at his office to let him know that i was thinking of him and hoping that he was ok.

 

[amy luisa]

On both sides? Strange?

HOW COME WHEN THE HEX'S are cast on both sides they can be the same?
I think i asked that once before? can you clarify that for me please?

Its very odd. maybe it means Stressing the answer to the question?

just curious as usual.

:bows:

 

[tali]

it's must be a hex with no changing lines, so you have two same hexes as first and second. Very simple!

 

[amy luisa]

thank you

SO what is going on here? what have I done?
I have read about questions that are sometimes asked (which i did not) like How Does He Feel About ME? i know that this is not a good question to ask, but you know what? this, at this time, to me, is a question i would like to ask. i would like to know about what happened, but also, when this "communication lifts" what to expect.

I do not like to NOT KNOW WHAT WENT ON and what was the reason for his ISOLATION that effected me. Sort of Like A HIt and RUN. and i am at a loss.

should i just have asked....what does he feel about the situation?
thanks everyone. still need some more clarification.

 

[lucia]

Amy Luisa I've been meaning to say this for ages.....

If you go to the tab at the top of the page there is one called learn. If you go to that section you will find loads and loads of amazing materials including free e-books that will help you learn about the Ching. There is a great section on questions, lots of detail about hexes, a free course to follow and much more.

Enjoy

Lucia

 

[amy luisa]

yes yes

i just saw that! thanks LOLOLOL

 

[amy luisa]

Thank you - Willow

i received an email from my friend who has been busy with his work. this is nice and thank you.

i just don't like to be feeling like i am "free falling" with my friends when we don't speak.
just as you said Willow!