Stop see my ex

[bcrawfo299]

I have alway been friends with my ex's. i thought she was my soul mate. We broke up because if something I did. She works weekend nights (nusers) and I watch her do for her so she is not by her self for 14 hr. this is the question I asked and answer but dont understand. I still would lime to get back with her but I do not make that known.

Should I stop see julie
45
Hexagram 45, Gathering

Oracle

‘Gathering, creating success.
The king enters his temple.
Fruitful to see great people, creating success.
Constancy bears fruit.
Using great sacrificial animals: good fortune.
Fruitful to have a direction to go.’

The old character for ‘Gathering’ shows people gathered like grass, or perhaps gathered to bring in the harvest: they have a shared identity, and invest together for a purpose, looking for what will bear fruit. Sometimes this is an external gathering, sometimes an internal one – collecting yourself and integrating your many roles and strengths, getting yourself together. Many people, roles, energies and issues are concentrated in this single focal point.

The king enters his temple to connect his people with the ancestral spirits. This is a time to strengthen shared roots, and understand mundane daily activities as part of a larger story and identity that gives them meaning.

With this connection made, it is time to see great people. Originally this might have meant consulting with diviners, to ensure your offerings were made in harmony with the time and the spirits. Seeing great people (whether in the flesh or with your inner vision) gives you longer- term guidance to align your efforts with your purpose. Then a steady persistence will bear fruit. And you are making great efforts – and an act of faith – investing the best you have in this gathering. You need those good, deep roots, and clear-sighted guidance, and you need to know where you are going with it all.

Image

‘Lake higher than the earth: Gathering.
A noble one sets aside weapons and tools, and warns against the unexpected.’

Sequence

Gathering follows from Hexagram 44, Coupling:
‘They meet one another, then they assemble, and so Gathering follows. Gathering means assembling.’

Pair

Gathering forms a pair with Hexagram 46, Pushing Upward:
‘Gathering means assembling, Pushing Upward means not coming back.

 

[mryou1]

Ok, I don't want to offend you, but you should really double check what you write. I could barely understand it, thought you were stalking your ex at first. Now I get that "do" was supposed to mean "dog", so you're watching your ex-girlfriend's dog for her while harboring hidden feelings for her. Have you ever seen The Big Lebowski? There's a situation just like that in there.

I'm guessing the dog's name is Julie too.

45 unchanging shows a lake that's just about to overflow. There's a sense of tension to it, and lake corresponds with feelings. So the situation's bound to spill over at some point. The fact that it's unchanging signifies that it's not anytime soon though. I'd say keep watching the dog if you've got nothing better or worse to do.

Maybe a better question would be: "What if I make it known that I want to get back together with my ex?"

 

[bcrawfo299]

I asked your question " what if I make make it known I want to get back together with my ex" and recieved hexagram 2 unchanged. What does that mean??

 

[goddessliss]

I agree with mryou1 - your post is difficult to read.

Hex 2 unchanging - she won't be interested - use your intuition here - Liss

 

[bcrawfo299]

We are friends and I watch her dog while she works long hrs. but still have feeling for her. That is what I should have said.