Support needed for 3 and 27 to 52

[shefa]

Oh gosh. I am the woman who received 27 in answer to telling Yi I was falling in love with a man, and you all said (thank you once again Willow) be patient and nourish him with love. And so I have been in my heart, but have seen him little since, until today. This morning I woke already thinking of him even before I had notied that I was thinking at all - do you know that lovely feeling? So when I saw him today I felt a little self-concious about all thse feelings in me, that have not yet been shared between us, as this is still new and growing slowly. So I held back when we were together today, to not let my feelings be so obvious, and the whole visit seemed off to me. I was a little flip, something I can do when I am uncomfortable. I know it was really because I was off, not totally connected to me. But he was quiet too and didn't seem to be totally himself either.

Anwyway, I left our visit and asked Yi -- what just happened here? I got 27 with lines 1 and 3 changing to 52! Those lines - yuck - what did I do?? I feel terrible. And yet I am so afraid of both being rejected, but more so of poor timing, that I am a nervos wreck.

So I asked -- what can I do - what's the best appraoch - to make things alright with us? I received 3 unchanging.

Feedback please!!

 

[willowfox]

Hex 27.1,3 > 52 you were acting in a way that is not natural for you, trying to put on an act, just try to be yourself and keep your desires under control, you were probably trying too hard and so became stiff and awkward in the way that you acted. So, in future relax and be yourself.

Hex 3 this hex is about growth and growing pains, in the beginning things can be quite difficult but like a plant, the relationship has taken root, it is beginning to grow, it is adjusting itself to suit the soil, so let the relationship grow naturally, just put water on the plant now and again, whatever you do don't force it, let nature take its course.

 

[shefa]

Thank you Willowfox. You seem to speak straight into my heart, I feel you are more than reading Yi, you are reading me, Thank you. http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/images/smilies/smile.gif

 

[mirian]

Shefa,
I see your reading in a very similar way. The Ching is telling you that, like in Nature, things need time to sprout and blossom. You don't need -and, actually, you should not- force the issue. I think that it also drawing your attention to the fact that you have all the resources that you need within yourself and just have to nourish positive attitudes, like your confidence and balance.

Good luck

 

[shefa]

Thank you Mirian. I so appreciate the feedback. I tend to feel things before other people in all areas of my life. I am just sensitive to subtle things and I don't always realize that the other person or group needs time to catch up with me. I realized that could also be happening in this situation. I am now ready to go forward, but that doesn't mean he is in the same place yet. I do feel we have a nice foundation. I'll keep you all informed!