Taking a trip to meet my friend in CA

[amy luisa]

just booked a trip to go back to the OC for some much deserved time of fun and water worshipping. I have a friend over there and he wanted us to go out for a few days and drive around and possibly get to a museum that i really always wanted to go to.

I will be staying in my own place as he will in his. I just asked the I Ching if Will my trip be favorable to see my friend Jeff?

I got Hex 44 - Coupling with a changing line @3 to Hex 6, Arguing!

I think that says for me, from what i have read, danger, danger, arguing, i read that this Hexagram was warning me.

please clarify. and let me know if I interperted the lines correctly.

thank you!
need to cancel these tickets. this guy is nice though, i just don't want to make any hasty committments
:bows::bows:

 

[willowfox]

The trip is not the problem, it seems to be your friend Jeff that could be the problem and you wanting attention.

 

[amy luisa]

thank you willow.

you made this statement. Why would Jeff be the problem? what is it in the reading that state that Willow please. I would like to look into this furhter with the Hex reading. I would appreciate that as i am thinking of just cancelling.

i have other people i can see in california as my daughter and i lived there, but at this time i was hoping to go to Southern CA anyway.

please explain where that is in the Hex's as i read it they indicate a danger of some sort.

thank you kindly willow for looking at my Hex:bows::bows:

 

[willowfox]

Your desire is to go see Mr.Jeff, but the line and Hex suggest that it is not a good idea at all to see him as something looks to go wrong between you and him for whatever reason, most likely something personal, maybe intimate.

So, its not the travel but the person you will meet that will result in conflict, other choices are recommended.

 

[amy luisa]

yes, you are right my friend

I sensed this. but when reading the Hexagram, it was confirmed.

when you say other choices...where in the Hex does it say that? and what are they?

i need some clarity. but i feel i should cancel. i might be able to also visit my family in san francisco. but again, its unsure of whether or not i would go. i was hoping to take this trip as a reward or something special to do after my 7 month sad time of not being able to communicate with E after such a long time.

thank you Willow. my intuition was nugging me. my friend Jeff is a very sweet and very very handsome guy, very much irrisistable and he is very attracted to me.. always easy to get them i have always found, but then, right away they want to "Be With You" and I am just not ready to take that STEP too soon.

he would take me to alot of the places where i would love to go and he is a very romantic guy. but something told me to not do this now, i guess i am at a vulnerable stage right now.

please advise me on what the choices were told in the Hex/s what do they mean?
:bows::bows::bows::bows:

 

[willowfox]

Choices? Well, if one option is shaky then find another place to spend a few days, surely, that's not a problem.

A vacation is good its just the people along the way that mar it.

 

[amy luisa]

my stay

yes, i have a great hotel overlooking the ocean that i was going to stay at for a few days and he knows about it.

i am just thinking that maybe i should just stay home. go away another time when i am feeling better. which, i guess will be after the year. i just needed to get out of the desert - the ocean does a world of good for me:bows::bows:

 

[arabella]

Go to Sea Lodge in La Jolla. At least the last I saw it, it was quiet, right on the beach in a relatively slow seaside town. Posh restaurants and shops in the area if you want them.

 

[amy luisa]

thank you

thank you that sounds awesome!