Tell me something about the matter (finding a meaningful relationship)

[namunah]

Hi, I am totally new to this kind of thing and would like to get some more feeling for how to best go about it.

I got this in answer to the question above: Yi's answer, 22.1.3 to 23.

I was in a longer term relationship that I ended about two years ago and feel ready to become involved again.

So I would appreciate any insights into understanding this better.

Thanx

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[Trojina]

Hi, I am totally new to this kind of thing and would like to get some more feeling for how to best go about it.

I got this in answer to the question above: Yi's answer, 22.1.3 to 23.

I was in a longer term relationship that I ended about two years ago and feel ready to become involved again.

So I would appreciate any insights into understanding this better.

Thanx

...

I think perhaps you need to cut back/prune your whole idea of what a meaningful relationship is before you can move forward.

With this particular combination, 22.1.3>23 I have always found what seems perfectly charming on the surface has rather a hollow innards (23) in wikiwing I liken it to trying to stick some gorgeous wall paper to a crumbling wall. That may be a bit extreme in this instance but overall the reading does suggest kind of 'getting back to basics', pruning back what isn't needed, getting more in touch with what is real for you and what isn't.

Line 1 asks you to really set your feet, metaphorically, on the ground. Simply be who you are where you are and have some reservations about some really good times coming your way. Line 3 can be a great experience, everything flows, you might be made to feel special. Enjoy that but be wary of how much being made to feel special can be seductive with not a lot of heart beneath.

The change patterns also, 36 and 6 (don't worry about these if you are new) suggest there's some pain and difficulty behind your venture to find someone new.


In particular maybe try to distinguish between romantic desires, romantic gestures and all that stuff and solid love and affection and most of all care.

This, in answer to your question, when you stop using a 'carriage' in line 1, when you just go about things your own way without other's ideas of how to find someone, then you begin to move forward but this does involve some pain (23) in coming back to getting in touch with what you need.

 

[namunah]

Thanks so much for picking this apart a little.

How do I understand the changing line 3 because that sounded helpful somehow?

Meanwhile I asked "Where do I need to best be looking for new meaningful relationship" and Yi's answer, 45.1.4 to 3.

That seemed to bring very mixed messages.

So since being greatly confused I went on to ask "Is there anything I can do directly to make this meaningful relationship happen?" and Yi's answer, 36.1.2 to 46.

I do think buried in there is an important message that eludes me since its so tremendously coded.

When it says "Set forth to the south, good fortune" is that meant literally to go south or is south symbolic for something?