that silly famous question

[dragona]

Hello, please help with an objective interpretation of this cast.
How does MP(male person) see me now? 14.2,3,4>27
Hex 14 is kinda too rosy hexagram for me and not sure which point to take-I am being seen as a person with resources or I am valuable and seen tru changing lines?
This was asked after a first like row so it may be about how my life circumstances are being seen from the opposite side and a different personality or is there romantic interest (very much unspoken)?
What is the future of this relationship? 5.1,4>28
This I see as an advice not to think about it too much and make myself more active in general in order to advance and think for the better.
Thank you for your help :bows:

 

[thisismybody]

14>27 - As a possession in great measure who has much nourishment to offer?

14.2 - you're helpful and able to carry a load
14.3 - you're noble and sacrificing
14.4 - you're someone others could envy

5>28 - while you wait don't allow waiting to capsize your ship

5.1 - you have to make the decision to either wait for his move
5.4 - or to get the heck out of the pit and make a move!

Not sure if any of this applies to your situation. I'd say, he sees you in a positive light and you should capitalize on it. It's interesting that 27 and 28 show up respectively as relating hexagrams. Maybe take the cue from the first answer, so you don't end up 28.

 

[dragona]

So nice to get an response from the other side of the planet
I am in a bad situation and it feels now like I am a fun distraction to connect to in his own time.
Be happy to be included in his holy routine :/
So certainly not able or willing to make any moves. Question was not asked in that direction necessary.
I was told to get out of the pit about something else just recently, so I think the message is not to spend all my energy on this but it is what an cut off person easily tends to do.

 

[thisismybody]

It is nice! Yes, get out of that pit. Sometimes our desires for another isn't healthy for us because it's sends out energy that says, "I lack." But desire is inevitable. It's just how far we go with it. Some desires have no conclusion. Maybe he doesn't think that about you. Maybe the Yi does.

 

[dragona]

Uhm, the thing is, I have given up on this friendship but he did not. And still did not abandoned me when it feels like almost everyone who could help has.One has to give credit to that. But it is getting to feel very unequal, as I stated. But under so much pressure, I am not able to be cool as expected. One should not judge too harsh no matter how Capricorn they are

 

[thisismybody]

Interesting. Why give up?

 

[dragona]

 

[Sixth Relative]

Hi dragona

This was asked after a first like row so it may be about how my life circumstances are being seen from the opposite side and a different personality or is there romantic interest (very much unspoken)?

From a Wen Wang Gua perspective, it does seem like a romantic interest rather than just a friendly interest.

In Wen Wang Gua the relative Sibling represents friends and the Official/Husband relative represents a male romantic couple. When a woman ask about a man, the Host line represents the woman, and the Guest line represents the man's feelings towards the woman.

In hexagram 14, the Host line is Chen (earth), the Official/Husband is Si (fire) and it's on the Guest line. You also can see a Sibling active line, You (metal) and a Wife active line, Yin (wood).

The guest line being Official/Husband is a clear sign fo him having romantic feelings for you; this is reinforced because fire produces earth. The effect when changes happen is Yin (wood) which produces the original; meaning his romantic feelings will become stronger.

If he would be represented not as romantic partner (Official/Husband) but just as a friend, then he woud be represented by the Sibling relative. But the sibling relative is not supporting but reducing the Host line (the one representing yourself). That doesn't match for him supporting you. So, I think he is not represented by sibling (friend) but husband (romantinc suitor).

However, there is an active third-party woman on the move. Since wood controls earth, this woman is affecting you in a negative way. Could it be an ex-partner? or someone chasing after him?. The effect for her after the changes happen is Yin again, this is a Fu Yin situation, meaning she's going nowhere, she doesn't get what she wants.

Now, the line representing you is Earth and you got the answer on the month of Yin (wood). Wood controls earth, meaning right now you are not at the top of your game for seassonal reasons; you just can't accept his feelings now. This could change in the future, most probably this summer

All in all, I'd say he does have romantinc; and those feelings would bacome stronger. You would become stronger as well and be able to accept his feelings.

Wish you all the best

 

[dragona]

Thank you for this interesting method analysis. I am a Metal Pig, born in the Dragon hour. He is but a fluffy rabbit

 

[dragona]

There is no communication for a week. I just want to share how on point IC cast can be-where do we stand answered with 9.1,3>59 and I am amused with the image of us rolling eyes at each other even though it is a bad situation to be in.

 

[dragona]

Back on speaking terms, he was waiting while I "settle down".
I did one cast while back and I remember the answer was that if miss the opportunity, there will be reason for grief. The question was about possible love relationship potential-cannot recall exactly.
Thus my surprise grew with answer to todays, very careful q. about what do i need to know about possibility of a romantic relationship? Hex 7 UN
I red in a thread here that it does not bode well at all, but my first thought was that of preparing for an project, not to say conquest. Preparation and concentration and working on it-together? (so much for romantic spontaneous aspect), but it is a very careful and shy and methodical person we are dealing with here...
So what to make of hex 7 when asking these type of questions?
Anyone had experience with it?

 

[Sixth Relative]

Hi dragona

what do i need to know about possibility of a romantic relationship? Hex 7 UN

I've always have problems to understand that way to phrase a question. Is it meaning whether is possible to start a romantic relation? Is it meaning whether that would actually happen? [ I mean, sometimes there is potential but nevertheless that potential is wasted at the end] Is it meaning something else?

I'm asking because, when I read "what do I need to know about the possibility of....", this idea comes to my mind "maybe what you need to know is not if there is o not that possibility but something else" and then I think this is very thin ice for interpretation.

So, if the doubt -regardless on how you phrased the question- is whether there is a chance to start a romantic relation with this man, the I'd use Weng Wan Gua and I'd say he is not ready for one at this moment, and that affects you.

But if what you mean was actually what should you know about that possibility, I wouldn't use WWG but the metaphors and symbols for hex 7 and the text-based method. I'd read your answer as not pointing on whether there is a chance or not, but to giving you some food for thought: there are strong emotions underneath (water under earth) about the possibility for a romantic relation with this man, you need to organize those emotions and take the lead (Judgement) with generosity (Image). Not necessarily to take the lead into starting a romantic relation, but to be in command of your emotions. Then, you can decide what to do with them.

Best wishes

 

[dragona]

I get very good insight asking what do I need to know about this or that situation or action but i never asked like this...an insight into possibility is a thin one right?
Perhaps asking the obvious, perhaps much, cos just gotten 2 casts-one worse than the other and that can happen when in this low mood....But my situation in life is very bad for quite some time and he seems to be the only support at the moment to this emotional and life wreck that is me.
My thoughts in that way changed maybe a month ago and he practically said that he is ...interested to learn more how we get along in person but is very reserved about it. :bag: So no one is ready, just wanted to see am I imagining things because we mostly talk on the phone and gotten quite comfortable with it.
You are very insightful and thank you again:bows:

 

[Sixth Relative]

Hi

I get very good insight asking what do I need to know about this or that situation or action

Yeah! Me too. I think this recommended question by Hilary is really great.

My thoughts in that way changed maybe a month ago and he practically said that he is ...considering me :bag: so no one is ready, just wanted to see am I imagining things.

I'm so sorry that you're facing such a difficult time. From the first answer in this thread, I'd say there is hope... not only about the relation with this man, but in general. Hopefully this summer would bring warm and good news to your life.

 

[dragona]

I edited the text, hard to find words while under so much distress...but I am not dying over this, I think things are well between us, as can be. My financial situation is devastating and summer jobs are for healthy people, so not sure why specifically this summer would bring betterment, but would be nice...