the end of a relationship? 49> 51

[zumi]

Hi everyone,
Not long ago I posted a thread about my fast moving relationship. We had a confusing conversation, where the man is ready to be just friends after the rapid development of sexual relationship. Today I asked Yi what should I do about the relationship with P and got 49.1.3.4. So I am confused, the lines say do not do anythingand 3 line says do something. After 3 times of a discussion it will be successful result. Hexagram called" transformation", but I still reacted the same way by getting mad, because my expectations were not right. Then I asked Yi "is this the end of our love relationship? " it responded with hexagram 49.3.5, which means the situation is too obvious to ask for divination. The first time 49 went to 8, which means union, the second, it went to 51 which means shock. So is this really the end of our relationship?

 

[zumi]

I have read more and figured that it is indeed is going to happen, our affair will turn into a friendship, so to day, it will undergo transition, but to proceed with that, the confidance in this action have to be present, confidence in becoming just friends. Because I do think we are incompatible, as a couple, but we need each other to grow.