to go on a date Hex 10.1.2>12

[goddessliss]

Good afternoon,

I decided to go back to online dating more for putting the energy out to the Universe that I would like to meet someone than actually expecting to meet someone.
Anyway there were tentative emails back and forth between this guy R and me and then he asked if I would like to meet him next week.
Over time I have learnt how to 'read' the players of which there are many and usually just give them the flick however this guy hasn't followed the usual pattern but he hasn't actually told me much about his life either.

Show me a pic of R just being a player in ref to me

Hex 10.1.2>12

Have no clue except line 2 saying it would be better just to continue on my own for now.

How will it benefit me to trust R Hex 35.3>56

This seems to me he is of the same mindset - should he trust me.

thks
Liss

 

[Trojina]

Good afternoon,

I decided to go back to online dating more for putting the energy out to the Universe that I would like to meet someone than actually expecting to meet someone.
Anyway there were tentative emails back and forth between this guy R and me and then he asked if I would like to meet him next week.
Over time I have learnt how to 'read' the players of which there are many and usually just give them the flick however this guy hasn't followed the usual pattern but he hasn't actually told me much about his life either.

Show me a pic of R just being a player in ref to me

Hex 10.1.2>12

Have no clue except line 2 saying it would be better just to continue on my own for now.

How will it benefit me to trust R Hex 35.3>56

This seems to me he is of the same mindset - should he trust me.

thks
Liss

I think liking/needing to keep things simple is the name of the game with 10.1 and 10.2 so this doesn't say to me hes playing a game. You might find him a little dull though as he may not be giving much out, not extending himself to you and the hex 12 may show a bit of a lack of liveliness in the connection. 10>12 doesn't really give me the impression of someone looking for a relationship as it suggests more introversion and circumspection. Of course it could be describing you in which case that applies to you... you are looking but not whole heartedly as you have a pretty intense relationship with self to focus on and you have steps to navigate in life hex 10) that you need to take to move on from the hex 12 disconnect. Getting through the disconnect doesn't look like it would especially be via someone else in 10.1.2. to me though it could be of course



35.3 is very direct answer isn't it...I think its says 'all trust him' so it does suggest theres no cause to distrust him.

These answers together to me don't suggest hes playing any elaborate games at all.......

(but in anycase its common sense keep yourself safe on your first date with someone you don't know whatever I ching says...just incase, but you know that ....you're a grown woman...Great Aunt Trojan)

 

[goddessliss]

I think liking/needing to keep things simple is the name of the game with 10.1 and 10.2 so this doesn't say to me hes playing a game. You might find him a little dull though as he may not be giving much out, not extending himself to you and the hex 12 may show a bit of a lack of liveliness in the connection.

(but in anycase its common sense keep yourself safe on your first date with someone you don't know whatever I ching says...just incase, but you know that ....you're a grown woman...Great Aunt Trojan)

Dear Great Aunt Trojan,
Thankyou for your reply to my thread. Through our emails neither of us was really giving much out nor extending ourselves, cause why would you tell someone much about yourself that you haven't even met, although usually it doesn't seem to bother these men and I don't have to say much. Perhaps ego usually overides these men but with this guy....well he just wasn't saying much at all.
However in my final attempt, I guess, in seeing if we would connect I wrote him an email about how I was just walking home from my gf's and I got caught in the rain about 1.5km away and how beautiful it was with the rain coming down.
Well that seem to be the thing that caught his interest and he wrote a lovely, warm email about his connection with nature which I could have written myself in terms of connecting, loving nature in the same way and then asked if I would like to meet him next week.
Just all seemed a bit 'what tha?' does this guy really 'get it' like I 'get it'
So probs panic and my habit of being terribly suspicious......

Anyway thanks again Great Aunt Trojan - have a lovely nights sleep Liss

 

[goddessliss]

Update: I met him, there was a spark and our first date lasted for many hours and we agreed to meet up the following day - he didn't show, ring or communicate any further. I saw him again a couple of years later on online dating and I said what happened there - he just said yeah sorry about that. Liss