I don't think the Yi is giving you an outcome here. Instead I think it's saying that you can try to win her back (i.e. approach her, tell her how you feel ... ), but you need to follow her lead, e.g. if she doesn't want to be your girlfriend, she doesn't want to.
Perhaps too, there is a change or shift in your outlook or perspective that's needed. I can't say what that is exactly, but maybe you need to step away from - or get closer to - the situation to see it more clearly? Perhaps there are signs / information that will make things more clear for you, and a change in your perspective will allow you to see them?
Looking back at my own breakups - there were usually clear signs of what I should or should not have been doing (or what was really happening), but my limited perspective, or my insistance on leading instead of following (like wanting to be in conrol or not listening to what the other person was saying to me) didn't let me see things clearly.
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