understanding 5.2>63

[alev]

Hello,
I drew 5.2 changing to 63 when I asked how a guy I am interested in "sees" me. He is a hard guy to understand to begin with so I just wanted a little insight into the situation and the result seems odd. line 2 of hex 5 talks about being gossiped about. I realize that everyone gets gossiped about at some point, there is no avoiding it, but I was startled by this! I can't seem to figure out if the I Ching is trying to tell me that he has heard some gossip about me (this is not good!) or that he himself is the one gossiping about me (even worse!)? I have no idea what the gossip is about if there is any...
Or is there any other possible interpretation for this line, does it always refer to someone who is being talked about?

 

[enmedio de la tierra]

What if your question is an attempt to make Yijing gossip about that guy?

 

[willowfox]

It suggests that he "sees" you as being rather emotionally unstable, with a tendency to be volatile and argumentative, a person who is easily hurt by criticism.

 

[alev]

Thank you!
I'm definately not volatile or argumentative but what you said willowfox about me being someone who is easily hurt by criticism struck a chord, He told me that I seem really sensitive!
the other suggestion about me getting the yijing to gossip about him is a possibility too, and made me laugh! I thought the question was innocent and not invasive but you never know
Both suggestions definately make more sense than what I had interpreted so thank you!