Was the girl checking me out? Hex 21 to Hex 15

[jp78]

Was the girl checking me out?

Hexagram 21.1.3.4.6 to Hexagram 15....? (Bitting Through to Modesty)

Line 6 really bothers me...it says Deaf to Good Counsel. His ears are gone. Does that mean she tried to say something to me, but I missed something because I thought I was picking up on everything subtle. (I have hearing loss so maybe I missed something she could have said even though we didnt speak)

The Event:

Story goes I was trying to get a glance at her while she was sitting on the bench but some big dude was my way blocking my view. As Im getting on the bus the big guy is in front of me and the girl is by my side. The big dude tells the girl "go ahead" and she responds "no, its okay, you go". But he insists so she goes ahead. Then he completely block my entire bus ride from her. So in the context of Hexagram 21 Im assuming he screwed up my plans to talk to her or maybe I screwed them up.

 

[chingching]

hahaha, biting through a big guy.

women like to be discreet when they check guys out so that could be 15. maybe line 6 describes the big guy who wouldn't listen to her and insisted she go first.

Do you see this girl regularly at the bus stop?

You know if you are in tune with that kind of scorpio primal energy you can just feel when someone is attracted to you. This is one of the reasons scorpios can be so alluring, they know before you do what you are feeling! Of course all water sign are adept at this sort of stuff.

I guess what I'm saying is you can ask the I Ching these kinds of questions but I think real resolution comes from feeling it, and that comes from experience.

 

[sooo]

Either way you're screwed. Might as well deal with it and just go on being yourself.

Stories like this are some of the most memorable, like the one that got away.

 

[jp78]

Um, how am I screwed either way? That doesnt make any sense. There are other fish in the ocean. I just wanted to know if that one chick was checking me out; its not a matter of life or death lol

 

[jfas]

No, I agree with sooo. I think the Ching is being pretty clear in telling you that that was to be your one chance at love.

Sucks.

 

[jp78]

thx that clears everything up jfas

 

[chingching]

So in the context of Hexagram 21 Im assuming he screwed up my plans to talk to her or maybe I screwed them up.

I think sooo may have been referring to what you said.

I Ching aside I don't see how not speaking to a girl at a bus stop is missing your one and only chance. I actually think you did yourself a favour, you'd probably get further with her talking to her in another setting... I'm always a bit on the defence in public transport areas myself.

Because your question was, was she checking me out.... I dont think the yi answer can been seen as predicting a grim fate. I think it said yes , she checked you out.

 

[jp78]

well, i just wanted to know cuz I thought there was some chemistry. I guess i read his sentence wrong.

 

[zacl]

Was the girl checking me out?

Hexagram 21.1.3.4.6 to Hexagram 15....? (Bitting Through to Modesty)

Line 6 really bothers me...it says Deaf to Good Counsel. His ears are gone. Does that mean she tried to say something to me, but I missed something because I thought I was picking up on everything subtle. (I have hearing loss so maybe I missed something she could have said even though we didnt speak)

The Event:

Story goes I was trying to get a glance at her while she was sitting on the bench but some big dude was my way blocking my view. As Im getting on the bus the big guy is in front of me and the girl is by my side. The big dude tells the girl "go ahead" and she responds "no, its okay, you go". But he insists so she goes ahead. Then he completely block my entire bus ride from her. So in the context of Hexagram 21 Im assuming he screwed up my plans to talk to her or maybe I screwed them up.

I'm not good @ reading even for myself, however in this area (then again..I ask alot of questions which I know are extremely complex behind the question)..I'd say you don't need a Yijing reading for this. Not saying its bad..however a better question to ask yourself in this context is what is holding you back, what are your insecurities, and what do you have to do to change your view of yourself and go for what you really want if your looking Love. Meaning really contemplating. In this case, your using externals to try to fill a internal question, which is going take time. Is she checking me out? Well..it doesn't really matter if your comfortable with yourself. Why does it concern you etc. Just some food for thought.