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Hi all, I asked the Jing if a close friend of mine was once involved with the guy I am now seeing because I sense some romantic undertones and jealousy from her.

I got Hex7 no changing lines. What does the army mean?

Again, I asked the Jing, if I leave my guy eventually, will there be a better man for me?
57.3.6-->29

I am quite amazed the the Jing's answer. Does it mean yes or no?

I asked "Does he truly want to be with me?"

Hex 9. No changing lines.. hmm.
 

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Were X and Y once involved with each other? Hex7.

I got Hex7 It sure looks like it, the army is a unit, more than one person, a team.

Again, I asked the Jing, if I leave my guy eventually, will there be a better man for me?
57.3.6-->29 There is always a better man out there some place but in the short term the answer is no, in the long term yes.

I asked "Does he truly want to be with me?"

Hex 9. I would say no, at least not at this time, and as for "truly", I doubt it.
 

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As Hexagram 7 is actually the opposite of Hexagram 8. Unity, I am inclined to see it as saying your boyfriend has not been a Unit with your girlfriend. Perhaps Hexagram 7 indicates that while your galpal may have fantasies about your man, he merely has been friendly towards her - perhaps hoping to enhance his chances if things don't work out with you? Hex. 7: The Superior Man increases his masses by generosity towards the people.

I read 57.3.6 as mirroring your speculation about your partnership. Daydreaming about whether you could find someone better doesn't get you anywhere, and ultimately harms the current relationship. 29. says whether you stay with the man you're with or trade him in for a newer model, the success of any relationship will depend on how comitted you are. "If you are sincere, you have success in your heart, and whatever you do succeeds."

Does your friend truly want to be with you?
9. "It is only through gentleness that this can have a successful outcome."
Reads like he is as uncertain as you are. "Only through the small means of friendly persuasion can we exert any influence. The time has not come for sweeping measures."
Take it one day at a time, I guess.
 

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Thank you both for your reply. They make sense.

Rosada, I really like your analysis. Thank you SO much. I know that is true.

I think I do understand what hex 7 means now. In combining both what rosada and willowfox said, I think he has been with her, but not in romantic liaison, but as a friend, "comrade".

I really must quiet my mind to understand the hexagrams.

I asked two more questions.
Is he my romantic life partner? I got 41 no changing lines.

Perhaps it is saying that good fortune, as in a yes answer will come with sincerity and sacrifice? That I should wait it out?

Now for the second question, I'm not sure if Iching can answer that but I tried anyway.
Does he have sexual fantasies of being with me? (I'm sorry if it's an inappropriate question)

I received 58 Tui (Joy). I did some search and it says it is a joining of two lakes. So I guess it's a yes.

anyone would like to add some insight? would be great :)
 

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Is he my romantic life partner?

Only if he manages to ...
"control his anger and restrain his instincts."
Otherwise he'll eventually get mad and split.

Does he have sexual fantasies of being with me?

Yes, his fantasizies about having you
"join with his friends for discussion and practice."
Sounds pretty kinky to me.
 
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wow, you look at the description of the trigram image. I think that makes alot of sense!!

"Yes, his fantasizies about having you
"join with his friends for discussion and practice."
Sounds pretty kinky to me."

This one though can mean a few things:
1. Kiss and tell
2. He likes it crowded
3. "friends" is just me.
4. He likes having me with a group of friends in a platonic sense.
 

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I asked two more questions.
Is he my romantic life partner? I got 41 no changing lines.

Suggests he is not your life partner at all.

Now for the second question, I'm not sure if Iching can answer that but I tried anyway.
Does he have sexual fantasies of being with me?

I received 58. Joy in communications not joy in sexual fantasies.
 

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Hi willowfox,
I asked again, could you elaborate more on the hexagram 41 given when I asked the question "Is he my life partner?"

11.4 -->34



could you elaborate on Hex 58? I have opposing viewpoints and would like to know what you meant by that hexagram?
21.1.6 -->16
 

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