What are my prospects for romance this summer? Hex 14.6 to 34

[dancingfox]

I have been going through some changes lately in how I deal with my love affairs. I am working on setting healthy boundaries. I’ve noticed since I started maintaining my boundaries all of a sudden I get a lot of male attention. But none of those men seem sincere or serious. Except for the one in my last thread who takes things really slow and only drops in occasionally on chat. But we will be spending a weekend together in August which is something to look forward to and makes me really curious

So; What are my prospects for romance this summer? Hex 14.6 changing to 34
Seems like a really positive answer!

Something along the lines of being in the flow and feeling magnetic. I read somewhere in the threads about this line it could also mean ‘blissful detachment’. Which is something I would really like to get the hang of more

Any thoughts?

 

[Lao_Tzu]

14.6 is a very auspicious line. Further so as it moves into 34 (Power of the great).

At the same time, we cannot expect the desired outcome. You are entitled to action, not the fruit of your action.

What you have done so far, and what you are continuing to do - wins approval from above. Trust the process. If you don't experience the desired outcome - keep trusting the process. That is the meaning of faith.

 

[redoleander]

This is a beautiful line. It does feel transcendent to me maybe because it’s about Heaven which, while very blessed, isn’t really about material acquisition or the mundane world and its prizes. I think it might mean that you have a lot on your side, that whatever higher power you believe in is truly with you, and that you then will supply the trust, surrender, willingness, patience, action and so forth. Grace is all around you, romance or not, you’re blessed. If you want to turn that blessing into something concrete, meaning if that’s what you truly want as opposed to the blissful detachment, for example, maybe ask how to best help that along or what you can embody in order to work with your good fortune? It may very well be a similar hands-off answer of surrender and going with the flow, but you never know I guess.

 

[dancingfox]

Good morning Lao_Tzu

I think what I have been doing so far is really important inner work for me. I have been working on my sense of self worth -and love. So this reading gives me a deep sense of reassurance because it says I'm exactly where I am supposed to be.

The desired outcome would be a meaningful relationship. There will be good fortune, just not the way I had in mind exactly. So the advice is not expecting anything and trusting the process = blissful detachment.

When it comes to matters of love I am very passionate, straight forward but sometimes stubborn and a bit impulsive. So blissful detachment is really kind of a challenge for me

Thank you for your take on this reading. It gave me a clearer view and most important some reassurance.

 

[dancingfox]

Hi Redoleander,

Ok, I usually don't follow up this quickly but the first reading was fairly obvious for me.

I did another reading asking how do I turn the blessing in hex 14 into something more concrete on the love front. I got hex 34.4 changing to 11.

I think again a very clear answer to me.
The hedge is broken through; the past is behind me, I can let go.

Vigour in the axle straps of a great cart
By invigorating my connections I might find romance.

I am working on all of my relationships right now, friends, colleagues, family, neighborhood... and letting go of the past and all it's patterns is closely intertwined with this personal project.

So by working on all of my relationships and by releasing old patterns that no longer serve me I pave the way for a new romantic relationship. I hope

 

[diamant]

What are my prospects for romance this summer? 14.6 > 34
Everything that happens in your romantic life this summer will be to your benefit, because heaven is protecting you.

how do I turn the blessing in hex 14 into something more concrete on the love front 34.4 > 11
Let those who don't want any entanglement go and make peace with it.

 

[redoleander]

I love this second answer because it does seem to echo what was picked up on in the first… beautiful things are coming to you, are all around you, and you need only have enough faith not to cling, to trust that what’s best for you will stay of its own accord, and so forth. I think take it slow, careful, and with a lot of clarity around what you’re willing. Having a very strong, clear will in terms of what you want… just without the big show of force in getting it. “Getting it” through steadiness and perseverance. Not passivity. More like active temperance. Very lovely in light of all the work you’ve been doing which I know is not easy work! Wishing you a sweet new chapter in your connections.

 

[dancingfox]

I will keep this post updated

 

[dancingfox]

Update!

The last couple of weeks were like a strange version of groundhogs day for me. Three exes reached out to me trying to reconcile, one of them even tried something more while being in a long term relationship himself. I sent all of them packing without too much drama. There are a couple of other guys that keep hovering around me. None of them are really worth my time. I don't think I ever got this much attention from so many different men without me even trying, and I had to tell of them firmly 'no'. It feels like I keep getting the same scenario over and over, me setting boundaries and before I know it another man is on my doorstep or on chat. I can see how all of this is beneficial to me despite the complete lack of romance or physical affection in my life right now

Another synchronicity: I ran in twice to an ex whom I had to block on social media last year, because he kept stalking me. He tried to keep all of the benefits from a relationship but none of the commitments. Both encounters were in the local vaccination center ( two shots pfizer). This man almost broke me last year, I had an extremely hard time setting boundaries with him. He didn't try to talk to me when we saw each other at the vaccination center for which I was relieved. Not relieved enough to remove the social media blocks though. I had a lot of anxiety after that break-up because I was afraid to run into him again, an irrational fear I know. Now that I've seen him twice I realize that I am well on my way onto healing from that break-up and I can breathe a little easier. But isn't it weird we should meet on both appointments for the vaccinations.

On the other hand I am enjoying a very nice staycation surrounded with good friends, family, lovely daytrips and lot's of fun and merriment in general. So there has been a lot of potential for drama but instead I am just having a lovely time!

Next month is going to get really busy with starting up at my new job and lot's of social gatherings in the weekends. I am really curious about how this reading is unfolding. I am looking at my own life with some wonder and a general sense of peace which is nice after a rough couple of years emotionally.

 

[dancingfox]

Another update;

I had a couple of dates with X but it didn't work out. More info in this thread: What do I need to know about X? Despite it not working out it was a really nice experience and I feel like I can let go of a lot of the resentment I have been feeling about my past experiences in love. So far this summer has been a process of letting go of those who don't want any entanglement. I am truly surrounded by blessings like old and new friends, a new job with better benefits and most of all a much deeper feeling and grasp of my selflove and selfworth.

big hugs from Belgium

 

[Olga Super Star]

Hi Dancing Fox
Thank you for your update

so it doesn’t necessarily mean that the blessing relates to the object of question. But it turns out to be a nice time anyway

 

[dancingfox]

Hi Dancing Fox
Thank you for your update

so it doesn’t necessarily mean that the blessing relates to the object of question. But it turns out to be a nice time anyway

It was a really nice, short time but not with the desired outcome. A dear older friend of mine noticed what was happening and warned me in time for repeating the same pattern: protected by heaven. Attaching myself to a man who isn't really availiable. I broke it off rather abruptly when this truth dawned on me.