what do I need to know - 41.2.6 to 24

[lightflower]

Hello,

I hope you can help me to understand this reading.

What do I need to do about the possibilities of meeting with this person soon? 41.2.6 to 24.

Thanks a million!

 

[Trojina]

Hello,

I hope you can help me to understand this reading.

What do I need to do about the possibilities of meeting with this person soon? 41.2.6 to 24.

Thanks a million!

don't know what you mean by possibilities exactly but first reduce any excitement/ anticipation around this. 41.2 is about figuring out how much you have to give to another, how much you have to get involved. In my experience its often a message to pull back, stop trying to fix things for someone, definately stop feeling you 'owe' them, be clear about your boundaries, less is more here. In general 41 is about reducing involvement, reducing strong emotions and attachments.

41.6 whew theres a whole thread on 41.6 somewhere if you look in the hexagram index, i think i started it. Hmmm well I think Hilary says view the situation as part of the journey, its not your destination, its not 'home'. Its still good but its not an arrival in itself just a stage in the journey. Others say many different things about it, I find Hilarys ideas on it quite apt.

And 24 hmm ? Reduce (41) and return (24). Someone clever here once said 24 is like 'reset to zero'. I liked that. So overall its like diminish too much giving, too much passion in the relationship...and of course it may be you are subject to that, that is maybe the other party rethinks how much energy they wish to put in to this too...yet at the same time relax a little here. i find 41.6 somehow to me also means relaxing an attitude to 'getting' cos you can't really lose here...which i suppose is another way of saying reduce emotional intensity over acquiring what you or s/he needs from this and return to your core values (24) to yourself, which is home.

In short then avoid over extending self for others, move away from intensity, be open also and relaxed in being open to new possibilites that help you along (41.6) without getting too attached to them

 

[willowfox]

Can you clarify your question?

 

[lightflower]

Can you clarify your question?

This is not a romantic situation. I've been waiting for some time to meet with my personal coach. At this point I am low in resources and he is a sort of luxury. I know that sooner or later I'll be able to make an appointment with him, but this is the first time that it is taking me too long. I wanted to know what possibilities I had to meet with him soon, as it depends in a lot of external factors. I wonder if this question was the proper one.