What do I need to know about X? (love related) Hex 2.3.4 to 16

[dancingfox]

Hi guys

A couple of months ago I met X at my sisters wedding. We hit it off right away. We kept in touch and this past weekend we had our first date. We have great chemistry and he treats me like a gentleman. Next week we have our second date. I am a bit cautious with my feelings since I had some bad experiences in my lovelife recently. I want to let go of the past and be truly open for a new lover, a new relationship. He had a similar experience, which is way we are taking things this slowly. We live a two hours drive from eachother, so there is the distance to consider as well.

I asked: 'What do I need to know about X? Hex 46 2.3.4 to 16
Sounds like he is taking a step by step approach and he is sincere. In line 3 the timing isn't right, which was the case for the both of us three months ago but now the timing is right. Then in line 4 you make a sacrifice in order to manifest something new in your life. Well if we would work out then we would be making sacrifices. We would only get to see eachother in the weekends and if we would want to seriously commit one of us would have to move.

What do you guys think? I am really careful not to get overly excited with everything...

 

[dancingfox]

Just bumping this thread

 

[marybluesky]

Hello;

good news!
46.2 & 46.4 show a little sacrifice & good fortune.
Not sure about 46.3. It may indicate easy progress with no resistance.
16 means emotion, excitement.

 

[becalm]

He's keen to push things up to the next level. Just as an aside. Remember he isn't the one that hurt you and you, him.

 

[dancingfox]

Hi Marybluesky, Becalm

That does sound really nice
Yes we both have some luggage to let go of...

Will update this thread!

 

[dancingfox]

So we had a second date this past week. He is a perfect gentleman, takes me on fancy dinners, pays for drinks, he does everything he can to make me feel welcome and comfortable. We can laugh and joke together but he is not at ease when the conversation goes towards something more substantial like feelings. Since we don't exactly live next door we always spend a couple of days together. We have great chemistry and he hugs and kisses me all the time, but past a certain point he keeps pushing me away. We have slept next to eachother for six nights now and... nothing. I appreciate his slow approach, but I am starting to suspect there is another woman. It would explain why he is blowing hot and cold like this. It's to early for me to be jealous but it did make me ask for some clarification before I left. He kind of blocked when I asked him straight up what he wanted from this, from us. He started talking about the distance (2 hours drive, not ideal but not a dealbreaker when you really like someone... ) so I left it at that and told him that it would be better if we remained friends. We have a couple of friends in common and the same taste in music so we will probably meet again at gigs and parties; I think we best leave it like this. My feelings are a little hurt and I am more then a bit confused so I guess I will need some time processing this.

Not the outcome I would have hoped for and not the outcome I gathered from this reading. Perhaps something might change between us but for now this is where we are. On the upside, after all the negativity I've gotten from men lately I have to say this one made up for a lot by treating me in such a gentle and decent manner. So there is some healing here for me to. And I hope for him as well, because I got the feeling he needed some healing to.

 

[diamant]

If distance was a real issue, he wouldn't have taken the trouble at all to do all those nice things with you. So it's an excuse. Hot and cold, six nights and nothing happened, plus an excuse... definitely not sounding worthwhile. I never trust 16 if the querent is interested in a real relationship.

 

[dancingfox]

Yes definitely an excuse... I wish people could be more honest about these things. Anyway I am glad I ended it, I'd rather have him as a loose friend then in a relationship.

 

[redoleander]

Oops I misread the lines! Last time and now.

46.2 Sacrifice, making the effort
46.3 not going much of anywhere
46.4 sacrifice again, a bigger one
16: strong feelings about it all but maybe not leading anywhere

46.3 seems to be not a great message for relationships, I could be wrong but that’s what I’ve seen so far. That it looks like something is happening but it can’t go much of anywhere maybe?

46.4 sounds like maybe needing to let something go

 

[dancingfox]

Hi Redoleander

Oftentimes with hex 16 as the context it's all about the excitement and not really great for relationships. And yes line 3 also doesn't bode well... Pushing up into emptiness. Maybe pushing things to hard? I don't think I exactly pushed things to hard but the line applies to him... So perhaps he wanted something more but then got scared... I don't know. The healthiest thing for me to do right now is to just let it go.

 

[redoleander]

Hi Redoleander

Oftentimes with hex 16 as the context it's all about the excitement and not really great for relationships. And yes line 3 also doesn't bode well... Pushing up into emptiness. Maybe pushing things to hard? I don't think I exactly pushed things to hard but the line applies to him... So perhaps he wanted something more but then got scared... I don't know. The healthiest thing for me to do right now is to just let it go.

To me, line 3 doesn’t read as you pushing things too hard more along the lines of going through an open door and finding out it doesn’t lead much of anywhere. That’s what always was behind the door.