What does he feel and desire about me 51.1.2>40

[Lady_lee]

Hello everyone !!
I made an inquiry asking the I Ching whether a person's feelings and intentions towards me is something true and lasting or something superficial and temporary and was answered 51.1.2> 40
I met this person in December. We had excellent chemistry and we came to a serious relationship, but some of us had some misunderstandings because of his inconsistent way of being and I ended up ending the relationship. He went through a very painful break 3 years ago and has since met several people, but he was not seriously involved with any of them and I was the first person he started a relationship after that period. Our relationship ended in February, but we did not remain without communication. Lately he shows that he wants to resume the relationship, but I'm afraid he'll get back and hurt me again (Yes, I'm in love with him) because he is one of the most passionate men in the world and not another cold one. I always dream of him asking me not to give up on him and asking for patience because what he has, is fear of love and afraid of me hurting him. I asked that question because I'm not sure about his intentions.
I do not know how to interpret this answer in this context and I would like to know what this result means ... Thanks in advance for your attention and apologies for my bad English hehehe.

 

[angelstalk]

Hexagram 51 as response brings us to a situation where a major instability is revealed. This does not always hurt us as we can see, that even laughter sometimes is depicted after the shock comes. In my opinion, this Hexagram as a feeling or intention is not something long-lasting or permanent, so if that is what you are seeking it may be appropriate to look elsewhere.

51.1.2 > 40

Line 1 tells me he is in the process of re-arrangement of his thoughts and right now he may have reached out to you in an attempt to sort out his own issues with relationships. He may reach out to you because he is lost and not because he actually knows what he wants. Hex 51 tells me his romantic life is currently in a state of instability and he may just be reaching out for the nearest thing to hold on to. Line 2 talks of a man losing his possessions and not needing to search for them.

In this case, there may be a fear of not being able to have a relationship that he is trying to deny acknowledgement of. He may be cycling through his rolodex at this point trying to find the one, or the one that got away, and it may take him time and a lot of hurt to realize that that person may not be there.

When Hexagram 51 is cast, this depicts instability that could be unattractive in a relationship. The Hexagram changes to Hex 40 which further indicates that eventually this season of his life will be released with greater understanding.

My advice to you would be to consult Yi on your feelings of love for this man, and try to seek answers why you still have feelings for him. It may be better for you to release yourself of someone you have held on to who no longer fits the role you remember them as, if your daydreams of them freeze you in a time that has passed for everyone else. I wish you good luck