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30. Separating
Line 1:
Threading disorderly,
but nevertheless respectfully.
Without fault.
There is some stumbling or misstepping, perhaps because of lack of experience. This however happens in a spirit of respect. It is not to blame.
Line 5:
Tears come out like heavy rain.
Sorrow and sighing.
Good fortune.
Grieving over a heavy loss. Things go well, however.
Line 6:
The king issues a ban.
Going is appreciated,
though the verdict is that the captured leader is not a bad person.
Without fault.
Getting rid of someone (or something). It is not so that there is something wrong with this person, but the situation is thus that it's better that way. Doing this is not to blame.
Hexagram is changing to:
31. Being Affected
Being affected.
Progressing.
It is beneficial to persist.
To take a wife brings good fortune.
Being affected. There is progress. It is good to persevere. Things will go well by establishing a union with someone.
Im scared of getting hurt.. last week he was really mean to me.
But now he regrets it and wants to make things right it seems.
I just dont know his motives because of what happened.
11.1>46 was the last answer i recieved after asking about the future between us now.
I've been gettin that one alot over the past few weeks.. like 6 or more times.. I think im missing something?
but it seems to indicate progression and rebuilding.. or a garden weeding type of thing.
Well, you know, look at it this way: Either way, it is best to shut him out for a time, and tell him this, and stick to it.Im sorry, i get what ur saying fox.
its just ( im not sure if i should hope..
just trying to maybe get some sort of clue that i should stay away from him..
and possibily not taking it for what it is because i cannot see that to be possible.
Megan: If you go back and read all I posted, I do think there is hope, but down the line, once you are stronger, and have not let him back too soon (which will dramatically increase the chances that he will learn to change his behavior and priorities if he wants to be with you again.)
I think you really have interpreted this well. It is clear that line 5 is the hopeful line, but lines 3 and 6 are the factors preventing the real connection. Sounds like they are coming from his side, as you note.Ok! so today, I decided to text him to tell I cannot talk to him right now.
Like what right does he have to think it's okay to ask me how I am after what happened?
Yesterday I had alot of trouble trying to keep my thoughts with me and not on him, I tried to read a book, nothing.. I haven't been doing much, I don't really want to so that could be a big part of why i'm in this funk.
Anyways I told him that I need my space, that i'm not okay and i'm still really hurt and that his actions towards me was very cruel and hurtful, and I have no energy to give to making things okay between us right now.
It's tormenting me, obviously.
I still need the time to get over it all.
I had to let him know that what he did was wrong and I wasn't going to just forgive, I wished I could and I tried but it turns out I couldn't.
Dragona when you said get more feedback from him what did you mean by that?
I feel we've talked this thing to death!
Now going back to one of my readings from yesterday
should i continue talking to him?
13.3.5.6>51
3>
Nine in the third place means:
He hides weapons in the thicket;
He climbs the high hill in front of it.
For three years he does not rise up.
Here fellowship has changed about to mistrust. Each man distrusts the other, plans a secret ambush, and seeks to spy on his fellow from afar. We are dealing with an obstinate opponent whom we cannot come at by this method. Obstacles standing in the way of fellowship with others are shown here. One has mental reservations for one’s own part and seeks to take his opponent by surprise. This very fact makes one mistrustful, suspecting the same wiles in his opponent and trying to ferret them out. The result is that one departs further and further from true fellowship. The longer this goes on, the more alienated one becomes.
The weapons portray the fighting and defensive attitudes that are hidden, "He climbs the high hill in front of it" - meeting with him but keeping in mind the way things happened in the past. Things aren't what they seem.
5>
Nine in the fifth place means:
Men bound in fellowship first weep and lament,
But afterward they laugh.
After great struggles they succeed in meeting.
Two people are outwardly separated, but in their hearts they are united. They are kept apart by their positions in life. Many difficulties and obstructions arise between them and cause them grief. But, remaining true to each other, they allow nothing to separate them, and although it costs them a severe struggle to overcome the obstacles, they will succeed. When they come together their sadness will change to joy.
Inspite of everything there is still an attachment that is wanted, and it is afterall achieved.
But,
6>
Fellowship with men in the meadow.
No remorse.
The warm attachment that springs from the heart is lacking here. We are by this time actually outside of fellowship with others. However, we ally ourselves with them. The fellowship does not include all, but only those who happen to dwell near on another. The meadow is the pasture at the entrance to the town. At this stage, the ultimate goal of the union of mankind has not yet been attained, but we need not reproach ourselves. We join the community without separate aims of our own.
There's a feeling of something missing, and maybe perhaps talking to him didn't turn out the way I thought it would, there was no apology..
There was a great shock in realizing this (51) and seeing that maybe him texting me was a personal thing and maybe he wasn't too concerned with how I was but how this had affected him instead.
"The warm attachment that springs from the heart is lacking here."
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