What does she intend to do with me?

[Dive00]

Question: "What does she intend to do with me in our relationship?"

29.2 > 8

It's about a girl that I really like and have a strong affinity with. But unfortunately, she seems not to have the time, cause; 1) She is still recovering from a bad break up. 2) She is studying hard on her exams = no time 3) We kinda live far apart (30 min train ride).

One thing is undeniable, each time we see each-other, there are strong warm, affectionate feelings for each other.

But yeah, I can't wait, hang around, hope, or hold on as much as I would like and love her

29 = pitfalls + 2 = rejoice in small gains + 8 = Union == My only guess, plus interpretation on this, is that she would like a relationship with me, but is not able to for reasons of x,y and z. What reasons, I don't know, maybe for what I have just mentioned above. However, 29 + 8 is confusing for me, as it sugests pitfals and union. That makes no sense to me. I would like to know how 29.2>8 translates to (her) "intentions".

On a different thread, Troyan said for 29.2

as counsel not to take on more than you can deal with

taoscopy:

"When the difficulties are too great, one leaves them to those who know how to handle them."

Please help :bows:

PS. Just a few seconds later, I asked for her position in our relationship... same... 29.2>8 wow

 

[Tohpol]

"What does she intend to do with me in our relationship?"

29.2 > 8

You've pretty much listed why line 2 is saying stop digging deeper in the pit that you find yourself. There's really nothing you can do until the 3 obstacles that you list are dissolved, if and when that happens. it looks like she has enough on her plate I think. And there's only so much energy to go around.

The background of H.8 can illustrate the union you'd like to have. It can also indicate union within oneself first, so when the time is right you have the potential to join together successfully. But clearly, now is not the time.

All the best.

 

[Dive00]

Thank you topal! Seems clear enough in relation to 29. (Getting out of the pit) So in this context, Yi was talking to me wasn't it? If it isn't, what would 29.2 translate in terms of "intentions" and how would her position be the same as 29.2....... or is Yi playing games with me again with that? uch:

Thank you :bows:

 

[Tohpol]

Well, I think that's pretty much reiterating what the Yi said to you. She's in a pit and you're in a pit. After all, you asked what was her position in the relationship. And the position is that she can't dig down anymore. So, space is needed for both of you. One thing you don't want to do is keep yourself dangling and or be needy. Sometimes the best thing people can do is just pause to allow things to work out naturally.

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