Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
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oceangirl
Guest
The other day I found a share house to move into. I was so excited as was the owner as we just clicked almost from the moment we met. Despite me not moving in until next Saturday we've spent time together as well as ringing and texting each other and planning on all the things we'll be able to do.
He almost begged me to hang out with him today trying to convince me for nearly an hour but I had to say no as I was busy with other things that I had to do and in the end he just laughed and said ok I'm just being selfish I'll catch up with you in the next couple of days.
Tonight I was out with a new female acquaintance and she asked me to join her as she was meeting up with a guy she knew and as it turns out it was him. She'd actually asked me to come so as to not get stuck with just him and her. Without going into a long detail explanation this meeting actually meant I caught him out in a lie but I saw it as a white lie and of no real consequence and I was happy to over look it. So really I thought it was great that we could hang out unexpectedly but clearly he didn't and he gave me the cold shoulder the whole night even forgetting to get my drink for me and monopolising the conversation but just talking to the other woman and if I spoke he'd turn the other way. I got a chance to ask him what was going on and he said I was being paranoid and didn't know what I was talking about. Eventually I got fed up and said I was heading home and she said she'd come with me, so we said goodbye to him and left.
After I dropped her home I received a text message off him saying he thinks it would be better if I don't move in after all. I tried to call him but he'd obviously switched his phone off.
What happened - 61.1.6>29
Line 1 - he didn't like getting caught out in lying to me and also the other woman and I both suspect he was going to try and 'chat her up' in the hope of bedding her.
Line 6 - not sure of this line it always confuses me really although I'm wondering if even though he sent the text he didn't really mean it, it was just an emotional reaction in getting his plans squashed by me being there.
He almost begged me to hang out with him today trying to convince me for nearly an hour but I had to say no as I was busy with other things that I had to do and in the end he just laughed and said ok I'm just being selfish I'll catch up with you in the next couple of days.
Tonight I was out with a new female acquaintance and she asked me to join her as she was meeting up with a guy she knew and as it turns out it was him. She'd actually asked me to come so as to not get stuck with just him and her. Without going into a long detail explanation this meeting actually meant I caught him out in a lie but I saw it as a white lie and of no real consequence and I was happy to over look it. So really I thought it was great that we could hang out unexpectedly but clearly he didn't and he gave me the cold shoulder the whole night even forgetting to get my drink for me and monopolising the conversation but just talking to the other woman and if I spoke he'd turn the other way. I got a chance to ask him what was going on and he said I was being paranoid and didn't know what I was talking about. Eventually I got fed up and said I was heading home and she said she'd come with me, so we said goodbye to him and left.
After I dropped her home I received a text message off him saying he thinks it would be better if I don't move in after all. I tried to call him but he'd obviously switched his phone off.
What happened - 61.1.6>29
Line 1 - he didn't like getting caught out in lying to me and also the other woman and I both suspect he was going to try and 'chat her up' in the hope of bedding her.
Line 6 - not sure of this line it always confuses me really although I'm wondering if even though he sent the text he didn't really mean it, it was just an emotional reaction in getting his plans squashed by me being there.
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