What is my best course of action in my relatonship?

[danadanadana]

I asked the oracle, "What is my best course of action in my relaitonship with him?"
I received 55,4 - 36. I would greatly appreciate any insight about the darkness in this anwer, both in the changing line, and in the second hexagram, "Darkening of the Light". How does this darkness get translated into action? Many thanks!

 

[butterfly spider]

Hello
I am not quite sure here if the hidden element is referring to here, without more specifics. In my experience this is not a sign of anything malignant, or even underhand - if that is any help. More like a solicitor coming up with a forgotten document, hidden from view, or a person who comes to help from a direction that is 'hidden' to you at the time. I think that it tends not to say hide yourself from view - I think here it is more to do with your partner keeping himself hidden, something that he perhaps wants to hide from you - not necessarily harmful somehow. You ask about a course of action - and this perhaps indicates finding out about him, or indeed asking questions that you need answering.

Tricky one this - and I am sure others will try and help - and be far more eloquent in their response. I had this casting once, about buying a house. It probably has no relevance, but I did need to look very closesly at the probate on the property - look and delve at the dark side..

 

[danadanadana]

Yes, thank you. I am lacking clarity for sure! I will stay open to new information.