What is my intuition telling me about her? 1.2.4 > 37

[joker5445]

I have a friend and I started having feelings for her. However, I've been cheated on in the past and that was a very traumatizing experience that made me lose my trust in women in general because I'm afraid that I'll get cheated on once again. I've been trying to approach this girl but somehow it feels like an impossible task to me due to everything that came to pass in my life.
I asked

1. What is my intuition trying to tell me about her? And I got 1.2.4 > 37

Then I asked another question:

2. How do I approach her the proper way? got 35.3.5.6 > 31

Judging by the hexagrams and lines, there's nothing to fear and it can even have a potential. What do you guys think?

 

[redoleander]

What is my intuition trying to tell me about her? 1.2.4 > 37

That she is a person worth knowing. And that you’ll be taking a risk. Putting yourself out there without a guarantee of what will happen (as is always the case) is kind of like dancing in the abyss.

How do I approach her the proper way?
35.3.5.6 > 31

With sincerity, without pressure (let her come and go, at least at first), and with courage/sureness (assertive, not aggressive)

Looks good to me! Who says you can’t dance gracefully in the abyss? Overall, I think sincerity and bravery are important here. Don’t try to do it and protect yourself at the same time. If you take it at a good pace, and listen to your intuition as you go, you won’t need to be guarded.

 

[joker5445]

What is my intuition trying to tell me about her? 1.2.4 > 37

That she is a person worth knowing. And that you’ll be taking a risk. Putting yourself out there without a guarantee of what will happen (as is always the case) is kind of like dancing in the abyss.

How do I approach her the proper way?
35.3.5.6 > 31

With sincerity, without pressure (let her come and go, at least at first), and with courage/sureness (assertive, not aggressive)

Looks good to me! Who says you can’t dance gracefully in the abyss? Overall, I think sincerity and bravery are important here. Don’t try to do it and protect yourself at the same time. If you take it at a good pace, and listen to your intuition as you go, you won’t need to be guarded.

Thank you, that was very helpful. A few days ago I did have an intuition to start dancing in the abyss and let go of controlling certain life circumstances.