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'Great Harvest' through 'Proceeding Humbly'How will our relationship progress over the next 3 months
14.1.4.5>57
This looks like we will move forward in a positive way as long as I continue to let him lead the way.
We see life a lot differently in many ways and he's quite narrow minded and verbally aggressive if he doesn't agree with you.
It's linking to those thoughts of unknowing or uncertainty that I suspect 14 is prompting you to disregard. I hope that between you both, you are able to uncover the best relationship that you can.Thanks my_key. I guess at the moment I don't trust it because I don't understand what happened in the first place.
Oh I do wish that was true!! It's easier (for me) to take accountability than hope someone else will. Perhaps the way I've worded it is MY frustration that he won't hear me.The way you write this down, it seems you are right and he is wrong. But are you sure about that? That he becomes verbally aggressive has nothing to do with whether his ideas or views are right, it could also be the result of pure frustration because you are not listening to him. H14 seems to indicate this, because trigram Heaven and Fire are not the trigrams that are open to another person's opinion. Both say: look at me. Hence, H14 is named Great Possession.
Yes I have.Hey, Ms. Kerouac, helicopter mother of two sons here. I may not have seen it above, but have you done a more recent casting? If not, would you?
In regards to the original cast, 14 as a symbol of the good you have in relation to your son (the love) and 57 as something else that‘s subtly permeating this 14 (his instability)? The love remains (14), but whatever belief he carries as a seal of sorts (57) guides him to cling to disharmony?As this stands my middle son came up with another 'issue' to NOT have an going relationship with me some months ago now, at the same time saying how much he loves me as a mother and a person.
The only thing that stops is the suicide potential. It was a real moment, I felt it at the time (psychically) though I didn't say anything and then my youngest mentioned the state of being his brother was in. Then some months later, when the middle son contacted me, he told me about it. I reckon he can't feel worse than he already does and I reckon he feels as guilty as anything hence his hesitation to try and breach the gap between us.I understand that. It sucks to have to step on eggshells around anyone. What would happen if you didn’t and just called his bluff? Not in some angry, mean way, but maybe telling him that you’ve moved on and hope he can too. But if he can’t, you’re not dealing with blame anymore. What’s done is done. And see what he says. He’s your son, but he’s still people. Sometimes we have to put people in the right place (in their place, so to speak), no matter how much we love them. And then surrender to whatever unfolds. And without worrying that we’ve caused their world to crumble. Do whatever stills your heart in peace.
So, you decided not to go be a monk in the mountains. Instead, you had 3 children. What’s the difference? A great-hearted trying of the will. Haha.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).