What should I know about her? 50.3.4.6 > 7

[V121212S]

I don’t understand whether the oracle is just answering my question, telling me things I don’t know about her but that I should know, or if the oracle is telling me what I should know about myself in relation to her.

This is a new relationship with a girl that I really like, but I’m bringing with me the heavy baggage of some past relationships with women who betrayed my trust often. So, although I really like this girl, I feel on the defensive, trying to keep my guard high, afraid that I will be humiliated if I misinterpret and misjudge her character, like I did with the other women in the past.
I really want things to go well, and I’m working on myself, so that I don’t make her pay for the mistakes of my past relationships, but at the same time I don’t want to be played.

 

[my_key]

Hi V121212S

I don’t understand whether the oracle is just answering my question, telling me things I don’t know about her but that I should know, or if the oracle is telling me what I should know about myself in relation to her.

Most likely all 3 and you are being invited to pick the bones out the consultation.

I really want things to go well, and I’m working on myself, so that I don’t make her pay for the mistakes of my past relationships, but at the same time I don’t want to be played.

This sets the deeper intent for your consultation and so it could be of most benefit for you to first see what you make of the reply from that perspective. In that regards although you ask

'What should I know about her?' Yi might well be giving you personal insights into ' What should I know about the relationship?' or ' What should I know about me?'

50: 3.4.6. <> 7

' Establishing the New' through ' Multitude'

7 provides the setting for your situation; one in which there are a whole army of things already existing in you both and each playing a part when coming together into the energetics of this new relationship. Some are healthy and beneficial and others are unhealthy and most definitely not helpful. This should be something that you both need to know about and ,certainly,what it is that prevails in you both. What prevails will shape the background scenery for the relationship. Yi advocates that in these circumstances caring and compassion and truly embracing any negative aspects are what really wraps everything up in a warm blanket.

50 is motivated by acts that eliminate what is unhealthy (nuclear hex 43) and you should know, for you both and for the good of the relationship that now is a good time for opportunities for elimination of that which no longer serves, to be taken, Recognise that a new way of relationship, for you both, is best achieved by rectifying your position repeatedly. Each time bring matters back to a centred position of unconditional love and then the position is most beneficial for you both as individuals, or together, to embrace and display improvements in character and to go on positively to take the next step.

50.3 - Remember, you are not the only one who can or has to be right.
50.4 - Trust could well be the nemesis. Both in the displaying and accepting of it influencing the choices you both make.
50.6 - Learn from the wisdom of your past experiences. Being both firm and yielding at the same time will create the best recipe for success this time.

... or you might find other insights that ring more clearly for you.

Good Luck