Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Thighs without flesh,
Moving awkwardly now.
Danger.
No great mistake.’
Unfortunately, he has our mother in a psychological stranglehold. If me and my sis want to keep our mother in our lives (and we do, we love her unconditionally) we have to accept him as the man of her life.
Me and my sister are the last two loved ones in our mothers life besides our stepfather. Since they started their relationship (20 years ago) my mother has distanced herself from all of her old friends, not to mention most of her family. I daresay that my stepfather has been a considerable influence in all this. So me and my sis could represent the strong female presence which he can't control; We are still present in our mothers life. So he tries to cause conflict, tries to create a wedge between us and out mother.
Me and my sister always had problems with our stepfather, he came into our lives when we were teenagers. I ran from home when I was sixteen to live with my real dad because of him. My sister did the same as soon as she was old enough. We have no choice but to tolerate him, our mother loves him blindly
For example, if I want to use the bathroom he will follow me to the hallway and wait there until I come out again, and pick up his monologue right where he left off. I tried to confront him about it but my mother immediately jumps to his defense, she just lovingly calls him "enthusiastic". -_-
I don' t know, I'm not sure. At the moment, I just feel angry with myself, for having been so complacent in this. I managed to convince myself for years that in taking a peaceful attitude, trying to accept him into our family was the right thing to do. Now I'd just like to bite his head off
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).