what to do? Hex 14.6 changing 34

[xime_skater]

Hi! I have consulted the IC cause i'm dating someone. When we're together he shows he's interested in me, but then he dissapears for a week, doesn't send texts, calls, anything... i think if you're really interested there's sth inside yourself that makes you move, so i see that his words and acts are a contradiction. Don't know what to do in this case cause i dont wanna fall for him if it isn's authentic. Please help with interpretation!! Thanks:bows:

 

[willowfox]

It suggests that next time you see him, ask if what he is up to and also ask him why he is too darn lazy to say hello if he truly has feelings for you. You are in the driving seat on this, so push his buttons and politely ask questions and make sure that you receive credible answers.

 

[em ching]

I agree I think it says you're in the driving seat - he recognizes you potentially as a 'great possession' but perhaps because of this he is intimidated. I looked this line up and others had said it could maybe mean that the other doesn't feel they're good enough for you. So perhaps he is concealing his true feelings when not with you so that he doesn't risk rejection. Perhaps also playing hard to get. Others have also said of this line and relationships that it could simply not be 'sanctioned by heaven' - that for whatever reason, you're being guarded from a relationship that seems perfect, but wouldn't be right for you in the long run. I think it's also reaffirming that you have a lot to offer - so maintain your strength and dignity when dealing with him - don't settle for less! If it feels like he's playing games don't let it unsettle you.

I'm not very good at being cool in relationships but try and set a good example by texting him when you feel it's appropriate (considering you're dating) but if he doesn't respond, try and be strong and remember your worth - ie don't go chasing him. Then next time you see him be a bit off with him - or sceptical about his texting methods - you could even make a joke out of it to make him feel bad but in a nonchalant way perhaps? Hopefully he'll realise and stop playing games, and if not he's not for you right now I guess..?

Hope this helps
:bows:

 

[xime_skater]

Thanks Willowfox and Em ching!! Yesterday before writing this post I took the desicion to tell him what I think, I wasnt sure cause it's a short time since we're dating and it seemed quite fast to me, but i don't wanna gather ilusions neither loose my time, so I think according to what you tell me it will be right.
Thanks again for being there!