What will happen now?

[dreamscape1]

Hello,

I am very angry with someone and feel very betrayed. It is a romantic situation.

I asked:

1) what will he do with our relationship now? 21.3 to 30
- I took he will make a minimal effort to reconcile to some degree

2) how much commitment will he show me now? 3.1.2 to 29
- I will not trust him and reject him and end up with someone else?

Any input would be great! Thanks!

 

[rosada]

21.3 - 30.
Hexagram 30 gives the image of two flames, two fire trigrams, and suggests two people, equals, comrades rather than lovers. So there does seem to be a desire to continue the association but not necessarily as a committed couple.
hexagram 3.1.2 talks about confusion and line 2 particularly refers to resistance to commitment.
hexagram 29 is about a dangerous journey, perhaps one we have taken before and now can navigate the rough spots a bit better.
Together I think you are being advised that your relationship with this person isn't clearly defined. Perhaps you want more from him than he knows how to give. I think 29 sounds like there will be trouble ahead but perhaps you know better now how to navigate those rough waters.

I think you should be very cautious about getting back into the relationship. He may be so eager to reconnect he agrees to anything you suggest but then he can't hold to it.

 

[dreamscape1]

Thanks, Rosada!! What makes you think he'll be eager to reconnect?

 

[rosada]

Getting hexagram 21.3 makes me think he may come to feel he was in the wrong and is sorry for the break-up and 30 suggests wanting to have some sort of connection between you. So I'm thinking he may want to rekindle the romance but may not have thought too much about how to avoid problems in the future. 29. suggests problems repeating till we learn how to navigate this area of our lives.

 

[dreamscape1]

Thanks, Rosada. I wasn't sure how to take that line (21.3) exactly. And thank you for explaining the lesson or advice in 29....very helpful!