What's his interesr 38.2>21

[ontheroad]

About 7 years ago there was a man who showed interest in me on online dating and we chatted a bit but at that time we lived a distance from each other and it petered out.
Fast forward a year or two and I moved to the area he lived in and I saw him around, especially at the beach which we obviously both frequented quite a lot. He would look at me and watch me but he never said anything to me although I said hello to him once and he didn't respond.
I'm camping in this same place and saw him at the beach this morning and although we were at least 20 metres from each I heard him say a few choice swear words when he realised who I was.
Then he did his usual and watched me walk back to my car and kept watching until I drove away.

What is this man's interest on me

Hex 38.2>21

He'd like to chat but doesn't know how to go about it? That'd be weird. Or He'd prefer we kept to our own 'lane'

 

[Liselle]

Maybe he wonders why you keep showing up? It's a little unusual...you chat online for a while, that stops. Then a couple of years later you show up again, in person this time, and then disappear. And now again... I'll admit to finding it a little funny, from the outside (sorry).

Also (not from the reading), do you know anything about his life now? Maybe he's involved with someone else.

38.2 says this isn't a mistake, but what to make of that is another matter. I suppose it could mean it's not a mistake to keep it a chance meeting - being in 38 a chance meeting probably doesn't promise a relationship. Am guessing, though.

 

[my_key]

Hi on the road

38.2 - 'Meeting the Hidden Lord of the Crooked Path. This is not a mistake'. (Karcher)

The discord that you are feeling most likely has a deeper message for you. Only you can unravel what that might mean for you. Whatever type of obstacle it is that you are feeling about all this, or what you suspect his interest might be, it is a meal that has to be eaten and fully digested.
Yi advocates that you work like the Early Kings to clarify what is right and what might be harmful in the interest he is paying you (21).

I don't feel this is about meeting him but more working with what resides in your 'Shadow Lands' (38). After exploring there you'll better know what it is that is rising up within you because of these chance encounters.

... of course, there may be other interpretations that carry more meaning for you,

Good Luck

 

[ontheroad]

Still not making any sense to me. Maybe he's just weird!!

 

[Liselle]

Not to me, either, really. 38.2 means accidental meetings - okay, that's what it is, obviously - but it doesn't help explain why he's reacting like this, as far as I can tell.

When you say it petered out, was that on reasonably good terms? And mutual?

 

[Trojina]

Maybe he's just weird!!

Funny you should say that as the earlier post I wrote but did not post said the very same. I mean who talks to someone online then refuses to speak to them in real life.

However 38.2 does make me think you will bump into him again and then you will speak because it's a narrow alley and he can't avoid it. Although you'd think by now the alley has been narrow enough.

Here's another thought....we have an ad in the UK 'should have gone to Specsavers' it's an ad for an opticians and the jokes on the ads are always what happens when you can't see. Supposing he needs glasses? He looks because he thinks it's you but isn't sure ?

I think next time you should throw a beach ball straight at him and say 'catch!'

 

[ontheroad]

Yes. Nothing untoward. I think we both lost interest because of the distance at that time.
The chance meetings have been random for sure and the first time I did see him was in the supermarket. That's when I realised he was working for the same local council as me, but our paths were unlikely to cross given we worked in different departments and I worked off site.
It's not a big deal but it's so weird he just watches me and says nothing.

 

[ontheroad]

Trojina....he can see alright, his reaction yesterday was mental! Swearing so loudly though I'm not sure he meant to....
My friend said next time he's watching, flash ya boobies! That might scare him enough to look away forever!!

 

[ontheroad]

Do you think this is the narrow crooked path??? This is the way to said beach!!

 

[Trojina]

Yes, could be.

he can see alright, his reaction yesterday was mental! Swearing so loudly though I'm not sure he meant to....
My friend said next time he's watching, flash ya boobies!

It's a little unusual...you chat online for a while, that stops. Then a couple of years later you show up again, in person this time, and then disappear. And now again... I'll admit to finding it a little funny, from the outside (sorry).

There is something amusing about it all, like some giant misunderstanding that can be resolved simply by an unplanned encounter.

Generally that's how 38.2 often seems to play out. One has a scenario in one's head about what's happening and then some casual yet intimate (of a kind) interaction makes it all clear.

My advice is next time just chuck a large beachball at his head, stick your tongue out chanting 'made you look, made you stare'...but that's not the advice of 38.2 necessarily

 

[ontheroad]

I think it's funny too!! Who behaves like him???
I have to go elsewhere for a few days but hoping to come back here to camp for a few more weeks.....we'll see what happens then.

 

[ontheroad]

I was sitting at the beach in my car reading, he pulled up a few parking spots down, got out of his car headed towards me, hesitated, turned around got back in his car and took off.

What do I need to know about him turning tail and driving off 1.4.5>26

He made up his mind to speak to me....line 4 - he changed his mind and Line 5 - thought he better ask someone for advice

 

[Liselle]

Good grief!

It occurs to me you don't know what he'd say to you. Maybe for some reason unknown to you he's mad at you and is trying to stop himself from saying so. 1.5 might be his inner big person or something. But who knows!

 

[ontheroad]

Good grief!

It occurs to me you don't know what he'd say to you. Maybe for some reason unknown to you he's mad at you and is trying to stop himself from saying so. 1.5 might be his inner big person or something. But who knows!

You're right!! I've no idea why he'd even want to talk to me after all these years. Does line 4 indicate he could be angry?

Actually thinking about it, that's what it looked like. He was agitated as he walked towards me, thought better of it and left. Good grief indeed!!

 

[Trojina]

This is novel material, the start of a thriller......or a horror...or possibly an odd romance based on tragic misunderstanding and untold secrets....

If you were sitting reading and he came towards you...well is looking for you?

What do I need to know about him turning tail and driving off 1.4.5>26

He made up his mind to speak to me....line 4 - he changed his mind and Line 5 - thought he better ask someone for advice

Trying to think if I did that to someone what would I be doing ? Well I can't imagine doing that, I mean either he wants to avoid you or he doesn't. Line 4 is on the verge of committing to action, well he didn't make that. Line 5 generally fortunate IMO ...you will speak at some point.

Waiting for the next instalment.

 

[ontheroad]

This is novel material, the start of a thriller......or a horror...or possibly an odd romance based on tragic misunderstanding and untold secrets....

If you were sitting reading and he came towards you...well is looking for you?


Trying to think if I did that to someone what would I be doing ? Well I can't imagine doing that, I mean either he wants to avoid you or he doesn't. Line 4 is on the verge of committing to action, well he didn't make that. Line 5 generally fortunate IMO ...you will speak at some point.

Waiting for the next instalment.

Totally sounds like a Mills and Boons novel - I love you, oh I hate you (stamps feet), I love you......only thing is he definitely doesn't look like Fabio 🩷

 

[Henry Zahir]

About 7 years ago there was a man who showed interest in me on online dating and we chatted a bit but at that time we lived a distance from each other and it petered out.
Fast forward a year or two and I moved to the area he lived in and I saw him around, especially at the beach which we obviously both frequented quite a lot. He would look at me and watch me but he never said anything to me although I said hello to him once and he didn't respond.
I'm camping in this same place and saw him at the beach this morning and although we were at least 20 metres from each I heard him say a few choice swear words when he realised who I was.
Then he did his usual and watched me walk back to my car and kept watching until I drove away.

What is this man's interest on me

Hex 38.2>21

He'd like to chat but doesn't know how to go about it? That'd be weird. Or He'd prefer we kept to our own 'lane'

He is probably interested, but his ego is still bruised by this "petered out" thing you mentioned. After reading more of your comments, I would say you have missed out on a chance to communicate with somebody who is not a Chad but a real man, as in nervous, anxious and not knowing how to approach a hottie like you. Tough luck for you...

 

[ontheroad]

He is probably interested, but his ego is still bruised by this "petered out" thing you mentioned. After reading more of your comments, I would say you have missed out on a chance to communicate with somebody who is not a Chad but a real man, as in nervous, anxious and not knowing how to approach a hottie like you. Tough luck for you...

Do you mean 'not a Cad'?
You could be right I guess. I did attempt to talk to him in real life but he just ignored me....not sure what else I could have done tbh

 

[ontheroad]

Unless he talks to me online which 38.2 can mean re narrow lane.....it's unlikely I'll be back in his hometown anytime soon. Such a shame I'd love to know The End