What's next in our relationship? 48.2.4.5 > 62

[Inkterpreter]

Hi all, first time posting here. I asked the Yi the following questions.

1. "What were X's feelings towards me over the past week?"

I received 37.6 > 63

Followed by:
2. "What's next for me and X?"

And received 48.2.4.5 > 62

Any ideas on how I should interpret this? The answer to the second question doesn't appear to be favourable in contrast to the first.

I subsequently asked: "What do I need to know about this situation?"

And received 47 unchanging.

Kind of stumped and would appreciate any thoughts on this.

 

[my_key]

1. "What were X's feelings towards me over the past week?"

I received 37.6 > 63

37 <> 63
'Household' through 'Already Fulfilled'

His feelings towards you in the last few weeks can be described as being held within a context of him setting things right or putting them in a place where they need to be for him (63). In this way he is putting the business of his own Household in order, and to the fore. He is saying things in a truthful way, for him, and then following the words up with deeds that marry them both together (37).

37.6 - he has a good clear understanding now of what his feelings towards you are.

Relating to both these clues, what he says and how he acts, is the best way for you to establish what his feelings towards you currently are.

Followed by:
2. "What's next for me and X?"

And received 48.2.4.5 > 62

48 <> 62

'Replenishing' through 'Small Traverses'

Together you are both encouraged to see the situation as one in which you both need to to take things slowly (small steps) and calmly. This attitude will hold you both securely as you adapt to this time of transition and moving forward (62).

48 gives guidance to you both to re connect with what you both hold true. If that means that you can work together towards a common goal, then that is to both your advantage. However, recent activity shows that the channels of communication have been blocked; the ropes are too short and the bucket is broken. There is much work to be done by you both to make amends.

48.2 - the bucket is still broken. Hard times remain as nobody is listening.
48.4 - the well between you might undergo some refurbishment, through less judgement and more informed choices, but in itself this may not be enough. The new tiles may only paper over the cracks.
48.6 - see the greater wisdom in the situation. There may not be anything else that can be drawn from the well and what you have now might be the best it gets. You each need to feel in your heart the best way to go forward as individuals - whatever that may mean for you both, replenished togetherness or separation.

I subsequently asked: "What do I need to know about this situation?"

And received 47 unchanging.

This situation is a time of Oppression for you, where you feel trapped. Yi advocates that the best way out is to accept what is going on.
Perhaps you need to know that behind 47 is the energetic tug of 37 Household, which moves matters unerringly towards having a new type of order being established.

... or there may be other interpretations that sit more comfortably with you.

Good Luck

 

[Inkterpreter]

Thank you for the reading, my_key. I've wanted to take things to the next level with X, but have been encountering some resistance and do not know why (as I felt that we've built decent rapport with each other).

"37.6 - he has a good clear understanding now of what his feelings towards you are."

Glad to know this! Past readings have asked me to "wait", "be still" and "retreat" when I asked how to proceed.

You're right, I have been feeling rather "oppressed" and exhausted in this situation for some time. While I am committed to making this work, at the end of the day it takes two hands to clap and I can't read minds.

Perhaps you need to know that behind 47 is the energetic tug of 37 Household, which moves matters unerringly towards having a new type of order being established.

This is reassuring, thanks =)

 

[rosada]

37.6 - 63. He is satisfied with the relationship as it is.
48. - 62. Assume that the way things are at the moment are the way things are going to be for awhile so assume this is as good as it gets and appreciate what you have.
47. You will totally exhaust yourself striving for more at this time.

 

[Inkterpreter]

37.6 - 63. He is satisfied with the relationship as it is.
48. - 62. Assume that the way things are at the moment are the way things are going to be for awhile so assume this is as good as it gets and appreciate what you have.
47. You will totally exhaust yourself striving for more at this time.

That's a bummer...

I agree I am exhausted - I've been cracking my head trying to figure out:
1) whether or not to move things forward
2) how to move forward
3) when to move forward

I'll leave things be for the time being, calm my over-frenetic mind and enjoy us as we are right now then.

Thanks, rosada for your thoughts.