Where do e and i go from here.

[amy luisa]

IN reading all over about what these two hex's mean. I learned that the first bottom ones are changing. solid lines. reading from the bottom up.

Wanting to ask where our relationship will go from here. I am silent now, i do not want to Lead anymore in this. wait and see what will happen.
thank you for your help


LEFT SIDE OF READING

Hex 11, Flow

- -
- -
- -

_______ this is the changing line @3
_______
_______


RIGHT SIDE OF READING

Hex 19, Nearing

- -
- -
- -
- -
_____
_____


Please clarify this for me,
:bows:

OH I SEE THE MATH NOW!!!!!

HEX 11 - CHANGING ON THE THIRD LINE (FROM THE FIRST SOLID FROM THE BOTTOM UP)
11.3

THEN WE GO TO THE NEXT HEX (ON THE RIGHT SIDE) WHICH WAS 19 (Nearing)

so we say Hex 11.3 changes to Hex 19!
i will try this again with a new question about the renewed involvement (after you clarify that one)

Thanks Willow...!
you read from the bottom up, first solid line, you write down the line number after the Hex #
then it goes to the next Hex.

 

[willowfox]

Only line 3 is changing if you turn Hex 11 into 19.

Line 11.3 indicates that the past few months have been troublesome for you regarding this relationship but the warning here is that you need to avoid putting too much importance on this relationship, if you become too dependent, then you will get hurt. You need to cultivate a take it or leave it attitude, then when things do go wrong it won't affect you much.

Hex 19 Suggests a renewed involvement coming soon, a more happy time ahead.

 

[amy luisa]

thank you willow

I wanted to thank you for this explanation. I also wanted to tell you that i have met a wonderful guy, also, and aerospace engineer, from my own culture (PR) and who lives near me and is very sweet and kind (handsome hunk!). His company does work with E's company (the IRONY) and he is in a management position (he builds rockets!).

This love came into my life just recently, and this guy, i guess, was my "distraction" from this relationship. My family and friends are so supportive and E has been emailing me once in a while just to keep the freindship (whatever it is you want to call it though) going. I myself, have been learning more and more, slower, to let it go so i can let this other guy get close to me.

Hex 19, you said was a "renewed involvement coming soon, a happy time ahead" now this is interesting. can i find out more about this Hex 19.

I am assuming its with E? since you say Renewed? could the renewal be as a friend? i would love to ask the I Ching about this. but i have to wait first to see when this will happen. I do look all over this site to see about the Hex. I have trouble though, when it says Changing lines...I did figure out that there are TWO - the Triagrams and the Hexagrams. I see the Top Stack and The BOttom Stack. Then, i have to figure out what story they are telling. It must take alot of practice.

Willow, can you tell me, HEx 19. is this with E? I look back on my previous readings and see how they came into place. All I want is peace with my friend. I want to also cultivate a healthy and loving relationship with my new friend.

Love to you Willow, i am going to read up more about these Hexes.:bows::bows:

P.S.
now that i have a new friend who is keeping me happy and grounded, that would be the irony again, that E would want to have me back as "A Marrying Maiden" although i don't believe it will sit well with me anymore.

:bows::bows::bows:

 

[willowfox]

Your question was about E remember, therefore , so will your answer be. But even a renewed acquaintanceship with E will not last, look back at line 11.3 which warns you that this relationship with E is like a roller coaster ride, sometimes good, sometimes not good. Hence the warning, don't get overly emotionally involved with E, otherwise you are going to get hurt. Treat this relationship with E as just an open friendship, two kids who have known each other for years, so do not make demands of E and neither become dependent upon him either.

So, go get more acquainted with Mr.Rocket.

 

[amy luisa]

hi

LOLOL yeah, Hector builds Rockets..yeah, my rocket scientist - LOLOL E is also an engineer. funny, how i attract these hansome engineers huh?????

yeah, definately, you did tell me about August...i rememeber that...lolol AHHHH
but i know how it was for me these past 6 months and you know what??? A few days ago i was going back and forth with asking you about how to phrase a question? Remember? i wanted to ask about if E and I would ever have the chance to Talk About What Happened to Us Last year. That was what i wanted to know how to phrase. So this evening, i just thought to myself, let me see if i can find out Where Do E and I go from here. So that to me, settles it, i will get my chance to talk to him. Also, i would love to see how he is doing, of course, but its important for me, to let him know about what impact it had on me after all these years, to see him again, and you know what Willow, it MUST OF HAD AN IMPACT ON HIM so much that he became the "Solitary Hermit" for so long. Yes, he was busy, but you know, he did email me about things that did not pertain to emotions. I still know this guy and i wanted to talk to him.

Face to Face is best. I have no intentions of going to LA in the near future, but ironically, i am going back home - again - in the FALL like last year - to another HS reunion...so there, lolol, perhaps we can meet - again - like last time - LOLOLOL

what a ride.....
Mr. Rocket Scientist DOES NOT AND WILL NOT KNOW ABOUT THIS!!!! EVER!!!!
LOLOLOL

I WILL CAST A QUESTION THOUGH ON MY ROCKET MAN....It should be better for me.

thank you Miss Willowfox!

 

[rosada]

I think WF has pretty much covered this but i thought it might be of interest to post what Guy Knight says in The I Ching on Love,

11.3
"The pendulum of change in affairs of the world constantly swings between poles of good and bad fortune. In order to hold a steady course through life, one must be master of one's own fate. this is the only way to withstand the vicissitudes of change. There is nothing we can do to affect this immutable law of change, even if we can manage to reduce its effects to an absolute minimum. However, despite the ups and downs, and swings and roundabouts, if we remain true to ourselves we can still avoid the snares of misfortune."

Then the line changes to 19 which is very optimistic for some sort of future contact. But 19 doesn't offer a guarantee of lasting commitment even then.

Thus I think you are being told the relationship is going through a nature low point just now but there is the chance you might get back together, but no guarantee that it would last even then. Now since posting this question you have also stated that you are starting to date another man. In view of the fact that it appears this friendship may yet be revived I think you are being advised not to get too deeply involved with anyone else just yet.
-rosada

 

[amy luisa]

wow

Something i wanted to tell you - i was just looking around the site and saw in October, Willow was answering a gal who had THE EXACT HEX as this one. Ironically, yeah, she said that this will have ups and downs and not to get too intense about it...(well something of that nature) anyway..

yes, This guy H, is someone that i would LIKE TO get to know. i was just asking if that would be a possibility.

But my friendship with E (as i think its called between us, i would have to ask him next time we talk WHAT EXACTLY ARE WE TO ONE ANOTHER? lol) is not going to be anything but FRIENDS - i guess alittle more as we are so much like brother/sister/lovers/friends/teacher/student/comedy/drama to one another. This is not going to affect me as long as i keep level ground. I have a strong emotion to this man and he to me as well, its very sad and sweet.

I am assuming its in August...really, i was told in August also in another form by someone. I hate the fact that so many famous crimes were committed in August as i am an infamous crime historian (LOL) and that would be a time where we would connect again??? LOLOL

No, i will not see anyone else. I still am waiting to see H this next weekend. Hey, i don't even know if he's gonna like me, he already shows signs of (What The Heck IS Going On With This Chick!) symptoms. I am scared to meet anyone now but with this Papi, i will make an acception.

thank you my sweet and SMART sisters for this advice. I am really getting alittle nervous. I miss my friend SOOOO MUCH and I so much WANT A NEW ONE.

here's hoping that i will get my wish and this summer will have wonderful and LOVING MEMORIES the way January 2010 did.:bows::bows::bows::bows:

 

[amy luisa]

As all relationships change

Changing lines at 3 turning into Hex 19

was this the proper way to read this?:bows: