While I waiting... three questions

[libelula]

Hello!

While my relationship with my lover it is in a pause - requested by him to sort out his fears as our relationship became more than "fun time" too quickly as he told me, I am trying to remain calmed as he asked me to wait for his call and not looking for him.

I asked three questions:

What is the impact of L. in my life? 11.3.5 to 60
What is the impact of me in his life? 17.1.2.5.6 to 64
Is it really over? 25.4.6 to 3

What do you think...? Is it really over based on the I Ching responses?

Thanks a lot!
Libelula

 

[themis]

Hello,

Having enquired about the impact you have in each other's life, IMO the last Q would further complicate interpretation/discerning the response as the last Q is contradictory.

On the other hand, you could both have a mutually positive and beneficial influence as both Hexs. reflect (11 & 17), and it could possibly be that the time of association may come to an end as line 6 indicates in Hex. 25. Guess you'd know where you stand and if things could progress/develop further.
You could enquire again, in say a week or two if the situation evolves, to determine what could be in store for you both.

Hex. 11.3
Without evening, not unevening
Without going, not returning.
Drudgery. Trial, without fault.
No cares, one's conformity.
Tending towards taking-in possesses blessing.
Comments: Without going, not returning. Heaven and earth's border indeed.

Hex. 11.5
Supreme Burgeoning converting maidenhood.
Using satisfaction. Spring significant.
Comments: Using satisfaction. Spring significant. In the center using the movement
of desire indeed.

Hex. 17.1
An official possesses retraction.
Trial significant.
Emerging from the gate, mingling possesses achievement.
Comments: An official possesses retraction. Adhering to correctness, significant indeed.
Emerging from the gate, mingling possesses achievement. Not letting go indeed.

Hex. 17.2
Tied to the small son
Letting go the responsible husband.
Comments: Tied to the small son. Nowhere joining in association indeed.

Hex. 17.5
Conformity tends towards excellence. Significant.
Comments: Conformity tends towards excellence . significant. Position
correct in the center indeed.

Hex. 17.6
Grappling ties to it.
Thereupon adhering, holding fast to it.
The king avails of Growing tending towards the Western mountain.
Comments: Grappling ties to it. Above exhausted indeed.

Hex. 25.4
Permitting Trial.
Without fault.
Comments: Permitting Trial, without fault. Firmly possessing it indeed.

Hex. 25.6
Without entanglement.
Movement possesses blunder.
Without direction Harvesting.
Comments: To without entanglement belongs movement.
To exhaustion belongs calamity indeed.