Why did he go offline?40.1.2-->51

[imsonicaal]

I was talking to a guy I liked, and he suddenly went offline. I was wondering if it's telling me he's mad at me or i am too irritating. So I asked the oracle, and it replied
40.1.2 --->51

So does that mean he's shocked or that he's reacting unfavorably?
I am not sure what's wrong with him, maybe he is busy. If someone can help me decode it would be good.

40 talks of some sort of tension.. is it from me, or from his work?

Regards
I

 

[willowfox]

I don't think that you have anything to worry about so stop your niggling thoughts of guilt and self doubt for all will be well soon. Perhaps his computer blow up, had to go to the telephone, toilet or someplace quickly, maybe won the lottery.

 

[imsonicaal]

Willowfox, I know it's intentional on his part... his computer is working just fine. He done this a few times.

 

[sunnygirl]

Hi, is this someone you talk to a lot? Maybe end the chat before he does and not chat as much. Good luck!

 

[imsonicaal]

sunnygirl, what do you mean when you say that?
Is he trying to play with me, do you think?

 

[Trojina]

I was talking to a guy I liked, and he suddenly went offline. I was wondering if it's telling me he's mad at me or i am too irritating. So I asked the oracle, and it replied
40.1.2 --->51

So does that mean he's shocked or that he's reacting unfavorably?
I am not sure what's wrong with him, maybe he is busy. If someone can help me decode it would be good.

40 talks of some sort of tension.. is it from me, or from his work?

Regards
I

Its pretty hit and miss to try to 'decode' this because it could mean all kinds of things from 'he wants a break from you' to ' hes wants a break from his computer' . Either way 40 signifies release from tension so I imagine he is having a break of some kind - but you already know that - a break from his computer or you - one or the other or something else entirely -

It would be near impossible to give the exact reason why hes not communicating because the exact reason I don't think is gleanable from the Oracle by people who know neither you, him or the situation - just a general idea maybe . My general idea is hes taking a break from some pressures,but as to the nature of the pressures he is being released from is anyones guess. The Yi uses imagery that can signify so many things, what do you think the 3 foxes are in line 2 ? 3 troubles he manages to disperse, a difficult person, a computer problem who knows, I certainly don't.

I think perhaps a more useful question for you would be to ask what your best response to his not communicating is, because really thats what you want to know. You want to know why he does what he does so that you can figure out the best way to react right ? In psychology its called the 'attribution process' - how we react to someones behaviour depends on the reason why we think they have performed a certain action, ie if someone doesn't turn up when they said they would due to an accident we will feel more positively towards them than if we thought they just hadn't bothered. So here you want to know why he has gone off line so you know how you stand with him and how to react to him in the future yes ? I reckon its often easier to understand the answer you get if you ask the oracle how you best respond to him going offline - because you can apply it more directly to yourself, less guesswork, oh and less danger of misjudging him.

 

[imsonicaal]

42.1-->20

Hi Trojan,

You're good at this! Well I asked the question I wanted to know and the oracle said
edit: What is my best response to his going offline so suddenly?
42.1 -->20

Now what does it mean? Good fortune?

p/s: Thanks for putting what I wanted to say in words!

 

[Trojina]

hey you put me on the spot now, I find 42 very hard to get a grip on because i keep getting it regarding illnesses !!

Your best response ? Smile and relax. Hex 20 shows you taking your time to think this over, no hasty actions or assumptions I think you should maintain generosity of spirit to him, think good thoughts of him and blessings will flow.(42)

 

[imsonicaal]

Hi Trojan,

I thought so too. Actually without asking the Yi I already know my answer - but how much is intuition supposed to be trusted?
There's something wrong with the guy I am speaking to. His reaction irritates me so, though, and I could never ask him - so hopefully I can resolve this and not rely on the Yi for the rest of my 'relationship' with him!

Thank you for your analyses.
I think all you interpreters done a good job

 

[willowfox]

I see both your answers as saying you have nothing to worry about, so intentional or not he stills talk to you again, so why not ask him.

 

[imsonicaal]

Willowfox: I just did. Left an offline message

 

[imsonicaal]

I asked the Yijing one more question that answered me directly.

Is it advisable to ask him directly about our relationship and etc?

4.1.6 -->19

I think it answered it. It seems to say that I need to find the right time to talk to him, but I still should do it. He may be immature and that's why he went offline like that - but I should not be harsh.

Any one with other insights?

 

[Trojina]

I agree with your take on it and also bear in mind he might not really know how he feels about the relationship. Hex 4 sometimes can mean simply not knowing or not being ready to be definate or sure of things.

 

[imsonicaal]

Trojan, you seem to understand this sort of thing!
I appreciate your response, thanks!