Why do i get anxious when getting intimate? 32.5.6>44

[hamster_twister]

The issue is that for me, its very difficult to kiss someone or being affectionate unless i know them a lot. I see my friends and they dont have this problem. Sometimes i feel like a weird girl. At the same time, i want an estable relationship but i feel like this is also blocking me when having dates.

32.5.6>44
Line 5 Duration to character through perseverance = male and female keep to proper roles.
Line 6 Restlessness as an enduring condition brings exhaustion = misfortune.

I think its saying that i shouldnt stress about It and if i want a more estable relationship i should keep on this role?


Edit: Maybe its telling me that i'm on a more traditional role and i'm not being 44?

 

[Matali]

Hello,
Hypothesis with your 32.5.6 - 44 : I think it advises you not to rush when you meet someone you like, not to worry, not to go too fast.
Line 5 is about perseverance.
Line 6 warns against inner turmoil that prevents a relationship from settling down in the long term. You're anxious because you want to go too fast like 44... Take the time and don't judge yourself, you are not weird, don't worry

 

[cyclops]

The issue is that for me, its very difficult to kiss someone or being affectionate unless i know them a lot. I see my friends and they dont have this problem. Sometimes i feel like a weird girl. At the same time, i want an estable relationship but i feel like this is also blocking me when having dates.

32.5.6>44
Line 5 Duration to character through perseverance = male and female keep to proper roles.
Line 6 Restlessness as an enduring condition brings exhaustion = misfortune.

I think its saying that i shouldnt stress about It and if i want a more estable relationship i should keep on this role?


Edit: Maybe its telling me that i'm on a more traditional role and i'm not being 44?

I agree with your first interpretation. You are being counseled to persevere in the modest way that feels natural and appropriate to you. The resulting hexagram, 44, is directly about sexual encounters, and it contains the idea if you were more "forward" than you are inclined to be, the resulting relationship would not last long.

 

[watersprite2]

Because ultimately you want more than a brief liason (44) and want to see if things will endure before giving yourself emotionally. But the lines show that your over cautiousness will block relationship potential.

That's my opinion

 

[hamster_twister]

Thank you all for your opinions! I think that the best is too keep cautious and dont stress about It too much but also i should be too strict, i think

 

[diamanda]

Why do i get anxious when getting intimate? 32.5.6 > 44
Because you're afraid that by getting intimate, instead of finding a steady relationship (32), the guy will change his mind and will only see you as someone for casual sex (44). Which is most often what happens in reality too. So I'd say your anxious instinct is spot on.

 

[marybluesky]

I understand as I always get super anxious while dating unless either:

1- I'm sure it will be casual and the guy won't ask for my time and commitment- in fact in more of a FBW thing. I don't need to know them well but a minimum degree of friendship is necessary;
or:
2- I have strong feelings for the guy+ a sense of trust.
The latter has never happened

As for the reading, because you want a lasting relationship and fear the guy won't want the same.

Good luck