Why do our problems keep repeating? 32.4.6>18

[vikk]

Hello everyone!

Hope everyone is great!

I would appreciate your help in the interpretation of the following.
My husband and I are having some issues in a certain area of marriage. It started recently and we are both very confused to why is this happening. It keeps repeating and we are both getting innerly frustrated.

I asked why does it keep repeating and received 32.4.6>18
Looks like the problem will stay taking into consideration lasting nature of 32 and "no game in a field" line.
Or the game in a field line could be interpreted as there is no problem here.

I would appreciate your input.

Thank you!

Love, Vikk

 

[Trojina]

I think you are both too anxious to fix it and hence that anxiety gets in your way (32.6). There's no point watching this eagerly to see how it's turning out....this is like performance anxiety. So relax, it doesn't matter, let it go, just let your ordinary life together go on

 

[rosada]

Wow - the titles of your hexagrams seem to reflect your situation:
(32) Enduring (18) Problems!

Sounds like there's a habit pattern involved here. The issues just keep cycling round, enduring. Maybe the IC is saying you have been attempting to deal with the situation in a way that wont get you positive results - no game in the field. Or maybe 32.6 means you have a tendency to hang on to past problems so old thinking patterns are re-creating old problems.

18. Suggests unconsciously accepting the edicts of past authority figures and the need to re-evaluate.

Whatever, it occurs to me that knowing what the cause is may not be all that helpful anyway. Maybe you should ask something more focused on the future like, "Describe how our lives could be if this energy pattern were to manifest in a less stressful fashion." That might give your unconscious a wake up call!

 

[mirian]

Just to add: my experience with line 4 (hex 32.4) suggests that Vikk is looking for the solution in the wrong place. The perspective of the problem is wrong, so she is getting nowhere.

 

[vikk]

hello!

I asked for a follow up question like Rosada suggested "Describe our life if we were ok in this part of our marriage." I received 27.1.2.3.6>46. This was for me a "F"""" off!" answer. Lol I feel like the oracle tells me to butt off and stop coming to it every time I am confused about something.
Also, like Mirian said my means to solve the issue is not bringing me anywhere.
What would be a good follow up question on that?
Thank you!