48.4.5 point that this relationship is at the very beginning as you described - there is a potential definitely as 48 is a vast resource of anything and everything. The potential is there.
32 however talks more about practicalities and that's where Yi doesn't give exact answer.
Could be no "no game in the field", could be nothing there, and also some practicalities like
who will take charge of relationship and some qualities of man and woman (driving force/passive force).
So based on that, Yi is kind of laying out the picture. I would read it as:
You are looking in the wrong place if you will not take charge of the development of this relationship
If you are not moving it - it will not be available to you.
If you just like him, and there's nothing yet between you two, I'd interpret this as a no.
The answer speaks of repairing an old source (48.4) and then the source is fine again (48.5) and the situation continues. The hidden line (28.5) says that the man turns to his old or previous girlfriend. So the guy may not be available.
Or, if there has been something between you already, then there is definitely the chance to correct the situation and get back together.
A last possibility could be that your ex boyfriend turns up and corrects things between you.
Thanks for the interpretations and reference to the past: He came to know me through my ex boyfriend, and he had something for me in the past (he was after me for 3 years) but I wasn't ready at that moment in time so I kept rejecting him. I think I had hurt him by being cold and thoughtless.
Felt that the I ching suggests that I look into that?
If I can't have him, I would really appreciate a chance to apologize to him, and thank him for giving so much though I had not been receiving.
The answer makes much more sense with these details!
Is there a chance that your ex boyfriend will want to get back together with you?
Or that this guy is scared of such a possibility?
In any case, since he had been after you in the past, it's very possible to correct things.
I'd suggest you try to think of a way of how to correct things between you.
Hi diamanda, thanks for the well wishes, I am no longer in contact with my ex, it's been 15 years! But yes this guy knows about me for 15 years, we only met in person (I was someone he has heard a lot of) in 2008, he kept trying to get my attention but I kept ignoring him or scolding him (I believed it was just a crush from his side, I didn't know he knew me in his way).Do hope we correct things someday and that the day comes soon
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