Will I be in Mexico this year to see my love?

[amy luisa]

I will be taking several trips this year and have been very excited about them. One in particular is in going to Mexico to see a former lover of mine. I was wondering, if this would in fact manifest, so i asked the question.

I received the following. I read up on the meanings, but please, feel free to give me your interpretation. I think I will be, but maybe later on this summer. Liberation/Release/Forgiveness? Absolutely!, but with The Army (7) I am not sure. Please advise and thank you all!

40 - RELEASE

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changes to 7 - The Army

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:bows::bows:

 

[arabella]

I will be taking several trips this year and have been very excited about them. One in particular is in going to Mexico to see a former lover of mine. I was wondering, if this would in fact manifest, so i asked the question.

I received the following. I read up on the meanings, but please, feel free to give me your interpretation. I think I will be, but maybe later on this summer. Liberation/Release/Forgiveness? Absolutely!, but with The Army (7) I am not sure. Please advise and thank you all!

40 - RELEASE

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changes to 7 - The Army

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:bows::bows:

As you asked for my intepretation Amy, I'll give it , but I think you're not going to be terribly pleased. This line: 40.3 is to do with a situation in which you are misplaced, or in the wrong place. You don't belong with this person and, in fact, your being with them appears to flout some convention or proper behaviour that can cause trouble for you. Maybe it's not an actual "law" you run afoul of, but some type of propriety, your own good sense, or even position in society? Perhaps you know the reference yourself.

In the imagry of this line, there were people who knew, or should know, that riding in a carriage is not for them. And if they ride there -- they should be ready to be robbed at any moment. In short, you could end up bereft and hurt, maybe meant more emotionally than in some physical way -- but it all hurts just the same.

Anyway, this appears to have brought you grief in the past and would only do so again. I'd think twice about wanting to meet up in Mexico. Sorry if that isn't what you were hoping for.

 

[amy luisa]

thank you

no no - no worries, i am also going to the UK this year to see another friend.

i just wanted to verify what this 40 changing to 7 meant.

WHAT IS THE REFERENCE OF "THE ARMY"?

THAT WAS WHAT I WAS ALSO STUCK ON?

OK CHECK IT OUT...HERE IT IS.

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IS THIS BETTER? WOULD IT STILL BE 40.3 OR 40.4 WITH A CHANGE TO 7 - THE ARMY???

 

[Trojina]

If hex 40 changes to hex 7 then it is line 4 that must be the moving line not line 3

in your drawing of hex 40 you only drew 5 lines not 6 lines hence Arabella thought it was line 3 moving.

 

[amy luisa]

Thanks trojan!!!

I WILL NEVER GET THIS RIGHT. LOLOL

I LOOKED AT THE LINES, I SAW WHERE THE RED LINE WAS, SO THAT IS WHAT I PUT DOWN. THEN, I ASKED.

SO I GUESS THIS MAKES THE ANSWER WORSE OR BETTER????

AND WHAT ABOUT THE ARMY? I STILL HAVE NOT GOTTEN THAT - I AM GOING TO READ UP ON 40.4 CHANGING TO 7.


AHHHHH

I am right next door to Mexico anyway (Arizona is just a hop/skip and a jump) maybe i just better have mexican food here. lololol

 

[Trojina]

40.4 sometimes advises you let go of your agenda...so you can allow people to approach in their own way

how you can apply that I don't know

 

[icastes]

While 40 is very good for love, 7 is clearly bad. Basically, there are many complications with love here, including the possibility that one of the parties is frivolous and unstable. There is no true mutuality between the two. The question is why this release, this liberation, becomes so bad. I believe that what is happening is that you will have some good, but you may not even see the man in question in Mexico or, if you do, that will not be a satisfactory. Mexico is a lovely country. Enjoy it for what it is, rather than pining your interests on some man.l

 

[arabella]

Yes, Trojan is right, I mistook which line you are talking about. Should have checked. And in this case, still not wonderful maybe from your point of view. More about somebody who is stuck in past tracks, going around and around, who needs the fresh, the new, to get themselves together and find different challenges.

I do notice in the history of what you bring to shared readings it's nearly always somebody or something past. This reading would appear to be saying that you should "untie" the old "knots" that bind you to relationships that really haven't work. If this is your love, why isn't he taking you to mexico, especially if you're right on the border? My sense of your traveling around to see guys Amy is that it's high time they traveled around to see you. This is a pattern that evidently doesn't produce a satsifactory long term situation for you and keeps you bound to the past. Your reading would indicate you are capable of and entitled to something better.

History says, you will argue about that and say why these relationships with you always on the periphery are a great idea. But I've never thought this pattern of relating to guys is worthy of the time and effort you give to it. XO Arabella

 

[amy luisa]

Thank you

I WILL NOT GO TO MEXICO UNLESS I AM ESCORTED WITH FRIENDS OR THAT I HAVE SOMEONE WAITING FOR ME AT THE AIRPORT (LOLOL) I DONT KNOW THE COUNTRY AND I DONT KNOW ANYONE THERE. YES, MEXICO IS A BEAUTIFUL PLACE, BUT MY FRIEND WILL BE THERE AND WE ARE CLOSE, BUT I WAS HESITANT AS I DONT WANT TO ARGUE OR ANYTHING WHILE I AM THERE WITH HIM. NO, WE ARE nice with each other, wonderful in fact, but I had my thoughts on whether or not i should visit for a long weekend or not.

hmmmmmmm

p.s.
sorry about the CAPS - i left it on. sorryyyyy lolol

 

[amy luisa]

hi arabella

I LOVE TO TRAVEL...Why would I want my freinds to come here to the desert to see me when i dont even want to be here.???????

I am sorry, I have many friends (men and women) who live in different parts of the world (LOLOL) and I love love love to have an excuse to get out of the desert.

I cannot wait to go to the UK in september, yes, with a friend from the past and present. i have travelled so far this year to NY and San Fran, to see people from my Past.....they are just still around and want to see me, i dont want anyone flying here when i can get more miles and vacation than they can.

i love to travel.......

thank you anyway....

 

[arabella]

I LOVE TO TRAVEL...Why would I want my freinds to come here to the desert to see me when i dont even want to be here.???????

I am sorry, I have many friends (men and women) who live in different parts of the world (LOLOL) and I love love love to have an excuse to get out of the desert.

I cannot wait to go to the UK in september, yes, with a friend from the past and present. i have travelled so far this year to NY and San Fran, to see people from my Past.....they are just still around and want to see me, i dont want anyone flying here when i can get more miles and vacation than they can.

i love to travel.......

thank you anyway....

Remember though that you weren't asking about all these people and travel in general, but yet another "love" from the past and later on alluding to not wanting to "argue" if you get together, which doesn't sound all that pleasant. As i just predicted, you find a way in your reply to my interpretation to minimise your questions/concerns about meeting up with men, where your appearance might be unproductive or unwelcome in some way, including meet-ups with old friends and lovers who are married. The Yi is saying it's an unhealthy pattern; I'm saying it's an unhealthy pattern. And you're not going to hear that. You often message me to ask an opinion on these things about showing up where men are -- yet you never want to hear it. Now that's ALSO getting to be a pattern. If you continue to ask these "my old love" questions, please count me out. No hard feelings, but it's so repetitive for both of us.