Will I ever have children?

[erre_kz]

I have decided to ask this question worrying myself about the possibility of not having/not being able to have children in my life.. there is no particular reason behind, and I have never tried to have children or to get pregnant so far. I often ask questions when I'm afraid that something may/may not happen.
I received only negative answers and in particular I received 6.6> 47
I am 27, now in a sort of long-distance relationship. I remember receiving the same cast after the man in question had to leave for a job offer abroad..
So the meaning of this line is quite intuitive. You are given something, and you enjoy it and feel like you really gained, but soon after that thing is taken away from you.

That's a terrible answer.. makes me think of miscarriages, so maybe I'll get pregnant in the future but I won't be able to carry it on.. or maybe I'll have a baby but his/her life won't last.
I remember also receiving 55.1 when asking for clarifications, but I don't remember the question. Another line that speaks of something really temporary..
I asked also if I'll have children with this man I'm involved with, and, among the various responses received, 6.6> 47 came out twice!!

Since I got the brilliant idea of asking the question of the title and received this answer, I literally fell into depression, this thing totally cut me off.
I lost all motivation .. I would love to have children, but knowing that most likely I will not have made me lose hope and motivation for everything. I don't see the point of having a relationship, I don't see the point of trying to carry on this relationship. Among other things, I always find men who talk to me about having children usually .. so how can it ever work when I will not be able to give them?
I do not think, rationally, that a woman only makes sense if she is able to have children .. but in fact I feel useless, a half woman without the possibility of having children.
Above all because when I love a person the desire to have children is still an always present ideal, the mere fact that it is possible fuels the relationship (and sexual desire of course) itself for me, even if maybe destined to end one day.
Even when I asked several times "will I ever marry?", the outcomes were almost always negative (62.3> 16 recently), but I don't give it too much weight because:
1) I can bear the idea of not getting married
2) the lines of the castings, although negative, do not have a "concrete" content like that of line 6.6

I apologize, maybe I only needed to share this casting, I don't know what opinions I could ask you about it, being the answer very clear .. thanks anyway to those who want and feel to intervene.

 

[redoleander]

Hi there, thanks for posting your question, I know this is a sensitive topic and it seems like a good idea to receive more perspectives. Perhaps there's another layer to this.

I'll give a disclaimer first that I'm new to this and also new here, so please feel free to tell me anything you think is in error or disregard it.

My first thought in reading Hex 6 and Line 6 in relation to your question is that perhaps you're pressing too hard on this issue within yourself. I'm not so sure it's answering the question but perhaps to conditions that bring out the question. I relate to this because I often ask questions repeatedly or put a lot of pressure on the answer in other forms of divination that I use (and I actually divine professionally for others, so I know bettter! ha! sometimes we just can't help ourselves) and sometimes the answer comes back to tell me my attitude and perspective are not helping.

I don't read this as saying you won't have children but that something about this approach is perhaps causing you distress or even creating an energetic obstacle. Age is so subjective but from my viewpoint you still have quite a lot of time to make this happen if it's what you truly wish and, furthermore, it could come together on a rather quick timeline. You might not even need to know years in advance exactly when it will happen.Maybe explore being gentler on yourself and cultivating kindness toward your worries. Neutrality is also underrated! You don't have to feed your fears or dismiss them. You can just observe them.

As far as this same answer coming up for the man you are with now, multiple times, that could be a clue you're pushing up against a dead end in this particular situation or that this desire simply is not mutually beneficial to both of you. Perhaps there is some advice in there that if this is what you really want, you could consider other options? Either that or the same advice that somehow the worry and pressure aren't helping this come about with your current partner.

I wish you the best with this. In other forms of divination, I often like to ask "how" I can make something happen or what needs to be removed in order for it to happen, etc. Maybe approach this as something you *can* do and receive information on how.

 

[Matali]

Hello,
In my opinion, 6.6 or 55.1 does not answer your question, but talks about your relationship... Take care

 

[erre_kz]

Thank you for your kind responses..
6.6 was not the first answer I received (I didn't even write them down) but surely as soon as I received it threw me totally into panic and despair.
The problem with asking a life span question is that it is difficult to tell whether the answer actually covers the whole life span ("it will always be like this") or just a part. These are questions that probably should not be asked, especially if you are not ready to receive the answers and then let yourself be influenced by them.
I don't know if the relationship is implicated in the answers, certainly there are correspondences with respect to some answers received, also because they are interconnected themes.
I have to think of some constructive questions I could ask ..