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A friend of mine who has a GF recently tried to flirt with me, that I didn't accept.Both of these answers seem to point to the possibility of having an affair with an already taken man. So perhaps they are warnings to recognise and avoid an upcoming obstacle, as in, this is what's on the immediate horizon and concentrate on how to avoid it.
And this happened. I don't regret it. If a guy respects me (and other women) he won't try to seduce me while the GF is in horizon.Will I have a romantic relationship in 2019? 39.3 > 8 As you wrote, someone returns to their former associates, i.e. the situation can't go ahead. Since you're not thinking of returning to a former solid relationship, then this is a guy returning to his 'wife'
He seems to have problems in his relationship. Again- not my business. I tried to explain to this guy I won't engage in behavior I find wrong. He didn't accept and accused me of being jealous with wrong take of the events. In short, there was an argument. We're not in contact anymore.What prevents me from having a romantic relationship this year? 9.3 > 61 Husband and wife are having a huge argument. The guy will be taken and the wife will not just sit there silently while he's cheating.
I hope so.I find that for me the I Ching often describes the immediate situation so I'm hoping the 9.3 oracle has now been fulfilled with the cheating guy so now you can check that experience off your bucket list and thus you won't have to wait until 2020 to make a worthy connection.
That's right. I've found myself in difficult situations in many forms. Maybe I could do better, I don't know. The only thing I could think of at those moments was to avoid bigger difficulties.What has held you back?
63.4 - 49. Plugging holes with silk sounds like you've missed out because of having to use extreme measures to fix potential serious problems. Maybe these refers to this current situation also. You had to be very firm to fend off a man who was trying to lure you into his mess.
Maybe now that you successfully done that, this obstacle is going to 49. Change!
I hope so, again.What should i change to bring in a romantic experience?
4.2 You don't need to change a thing - you're perfect just the way you are.
4.4 Besides, how would you know what to change? Who could you be if not you?
I consider it seriously.However, there does seem to be a need for...
35. Self Promotion!
"The Superior Man himself brightens his bright virtue" - Wilhelm
CuteI met my husband at an event where I was handing out my business card. I happened to give him one and he called...
That's exactly how I feel about dating. I don't like it. I prefer my relationship to grow organically. That's why I want to be friends first, or date my friends. It's no fun for me to flirt and all of a sudden be intimate with a stranger. Feels forced, especially with current dating rituals...63.4– what has prevented union all these years? Honestly I don’t know how to interpret this. When I’ve received this answer it’s been something that has felt utterly exhausting and like I felt like I had to do but not really felt like. I don’t want to project onto you so...
like this! Why my natural self isn't enough? Why should I look artificially perfect and happy? All that makes me reluctant.maybe it means your not giving your best self? (Clothes available but wearing rags) like it’s something your afraid your not worthy of.
Maybe. I don't know. Admittedly, I hate it when people want to jump in my life and know and comment about everything all of a sudden, like happens in dating.Something deep inside your afraid to have.
So the way I relate to people now isn't enough, huh? Another thing I hate about dating: to show off speedily. I feel comfortable in my skin. Why should I push myself to show off? And in the end, what people want is sex and conventional gentleness. I don't think the essence is of much importance.And while you have so many beautiful things within you, you don’t have access to them because you do see them and so instead energetically what you’re displaying is a lesser version of yourself that others pick up on and so the wrong types are attracted to you.
Yes, it often happens.Meaning what likes you you don’t like
Doing and doing and doing... I don't know why should we "put effort" so much while man/woman relationships are supposed to be a natural part of everyone's life.Line 2. Need to realize I haven’t done everything.
Do you mean that I should be comfortable with my singleness? I see. Sounds more natural that "artificial" romances.I think it’s saying how you are engaged with your singleness is part of the problem. It needs to be eliminated and instead surrendered to and accepted.
But I love my surroundings... I have no motivation to leave all the lovely things so that maybe I find romantic love, if I've taken it rightly.Here’s a good interpretation I likeEnlightenment from six four: to give up what one is engaged in.Line 4 is trapped in ignorance because it has no access to a teacher and is completely surrounded by ignorant people; this will be resented.
I really don't know another way of being. That's my style. I'm not saying that I'm perfect but to follow conventions is to kill my real self.The hexagram that forms after this line is activated, acting actively as masculine but not righteously, is Wei Ji (64), not completed yet, signifying a total failure as all that has been done is in vain.
The main reading was about my life in 2019, however the answers cover a longer length of time."Will I have a romantic relationship in 2019?"
39.3 to 8 ~ The problem is that you haven't been able to escape from the same rutted pattern, meaning that you always end up back where you started.
"What prevents me from having a romantic relationship this year?"
9.3 to 61 ~ You are stuck with the barnyard (small) animals due to misperceptions.
"What has prevented me from having a romantic relationship ALL THESE YEARS?"
63.4 to 49 ~ Suggests a curse requiring magical (shamanic) healing...see Liu Ming's "Changing Zhouyi" for the Image in 49 [fine print: I am not a shaman, just my opinion, your mileage may vary, humma, humma, humma...]
"What should I change to bring a romantic relationship into my life?"
4.2.4 to 35 ~ Without rejecting the barnyard (small) ~ it's important that you escape from it into the livestock pasture (great) ~ and then your romantic life will advance forward transformatively.
No idea....however, your *Mystery* (for men it's Gravitas) remains dormant and you are (mis)-perceived by others, instead, as just another of the barnyard animals...
I know that perhaps it is a bit late to reply to this as it seems to have been posted some time ago. But, I think I can give you a hint on your reading. Imagine line 4.2 and line 4.4 are having a conversation. So, between the situation of having the "right behavior for learning" and "not wanting to learn" there is the opportunity to increase your consciouness (Hex 35).Today I asked "What has prevented me from having a romantic relationship ALL THESE YEARS?", & got 63.4> 49
I don't know how to interpret the two hexagrams; however the line "shows its subject with rags provided against any leak in his boat, and on his guard all day long."-
"He is on his guard all the day: he is in doubt about something."
So my doubts & being on guard held me back.
Then I asked "What should I change to bring a romantic relationship into my life?" and got 4.2.4 >35
I'm Inexperienced/should act Youthfully/ find a Youth (4) and make Advance (35)- it's not cool to hear I'm still inexperienced in my late 20s to be honest.
4.2: "Embracing the ignoramus, good fortune.
Receiving the woman, good fortune.
The child governs the home."
To accept my folly, inexperience & femininity and be like a child?
4.4: "Confined ignoramus – shame"
It will be a shame to confine myself.
I can't understand how it applies to my real life. When nothing happens, when I can't find any suitable partner, how am I supposed to end this "Inexperience"?
Any comments?
Clarity,
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