will i see her tomorrow? 30.5 > 13

[moksha_]

I asked the i ching if I would see this girl tomorrow. Some background, I've been trying to pursue this girl I'm interested in. I'm close to graduating, in about a week it'll be my last time at my uni. She's in 3rd year now. I'm not in contact with her, but I feel the connection between us. Just not entirely sure how much she feels towards me. I tried asking her out once, she accepted but under some condition, though I didn't go through with it. Then it got bad from there, I think there's misunderstanding between us.

Hexagram 30.5 - after reading the interpretations, it sounds sad. It sounds like she might not be there tomorrow, or if she is it's going to be kinda depressing. I don't know what good fortune it would lead to.

Relating hexagram 13, maybe we'll form a fellowship/friendship tomorrow? Or it might be talking about something else. Don't know. Will update though after some responses.

 

[Trojina]

If she is there don't be afraid to be fully transparent about your feelings. There's tears here for some reason but Yi says they are good healing tears that wash the heart clear.

If she isn't there and you've lost her you will be crying perhaps and Yi comforts you in advance and says somehow those tears cleanse you and release you. If she is there there will be tears too, perhaps if you fully express what you feel. This line can show up for heartfelt reunion, where both people let go of the wrongs between them.

This seems central

I tried asking her out once, she accepted but under some condition, though I didn't go through with it. Then it got bad from there, I think there's misunderstanding between us.

If she is there or if you get the chance, show her how sad you are, don't be afraid to show emotion. If you have lost her then well for some reason Yi shows you cleansing your heart so there are no regrets here eventually.

 

[moksha_]

She denied my request to talk to her. Sigh.. I guess she lost interest in me. No fortune came either.

 

[moksha_]

I asked the iching why I have trouble with women, and got Hexagram 43.2.3 > 17

43.2 - I interpret it as that I'm way too paranoid, probably from my self-defeatist attitude.
43.3 - I interpret as me being a misunderstood person that's perceived as a bad guy.

Relating Hexagram 17, I don't know why that's there. Seems positive, but then the lines are all negative.

 

[mandarin_23]

Hi moksha, propably no point to ask about "positivity" and "negativity".

Something happend what made you think about yourself, about the way you feel or behave. You asked a general question, not why you had trouble with this special woman, but with women in general, as if you thought that there was something not all right with you.

Maybe 17, following, points a the question it self, the subject matter, following - and then, best it will be just to meditate about the whole hexagram, especially the corresponding lines 2 and 3 - I don't know them by heart now - see what it means to follow.

Thinking about your post as a woman, I can see that you might be a decision maker, you probably want a "yes" or a "no" very quickly. And when I was seeking a partner, I choose one you listened to me and made me feel happy … which is something what can't be explained. He followed me, he didn't stalk me, though, as there always was this interchange and subtle communication. He was into me, but also open, he didn't just have my positive or negative answers in his mind.

Anyway, it all depends on the woman, as well … if she is right, she will allow you to follow her, and she will make you feel confident enough.