your experience in love with hexagram 26

[PrincessS]

hello everyone and sorry my bad english. I would be very curious to know what experiences you had with hexagram 26 in the love field. since I just received a nice 26 uc in a love application and I don't know how to interpret it. with love

 

[Freedda]

Can you share more? What is it you actually asked? Was it about a particular person or about your romantic prospects in general?

 

[rosada]

Hexagram 26 is advice not to recklessly jump into things or committing too much too soon.. It advises holding off sexual passion and getting to know a person on all levels.

 

[diamanda]

hello everyone and sorry my bad english. I would be very curious to know what experiences you had with hexagram 26 in the love field. since I just received a nice 26 uc in a love application and I don't know how to interpret it. with love

What was your question exactly?

 

[PrincessS]

Can you share more? What is it you actually asked? Was it about a particular person or about your romantic prospects in general?

on a person! I asked what will happen between us

 

[PrincessS]

What was your question exactly?

I asked what will happen between us the first answer 26 unchanged I asked the question differently and I got 32.1.2> 55

 

[PrincessS]

Can you share more? What is it you actually asked? Was it about a particular person or about your romantic prospects in general?

about a person

 

[PrincessS]

Hexagram 26 is advice not to recklessly jump into things or committing too much too soon.. It advises holding off sexual passion and getting to know a person on all levels.

very similar to a second response that I got second response= 32.1.2>55

 

[Freedda]

I generally agree with Rosada's response: this is not a yes or no answer, but is advising some restraint, and perhaps too to remember to keep in mind what it is you want out of the relationship.

 

[PrincessS]

I generally agree with Rosada's response: this is not a yes or no answer, but is advising some restraint, and perhaps too to remember to keep in mind what it is you want out of the relationship.

and what do you think of the launch of 32.1.2> 55? With love

 

[Freedda]

and what do you think of the launch of 32.1.2> 55? With love

And why would you want to ask the same question again?

 

[rosada]

32 is Duration and the first line of any hexagram describes the conditions BEFORE we get into the situation described by the hexagram. Thus you could read 32.1 as describing your connection with this person as being relatively new, like it has yet to have a history to it, it hasn't "endured" anything yet. Line 2 also suggests you are still very much at the beginning, still in the "now" without a history. So as an answer to your question about what is going to happen between for you as a couple it seems to me to be saying that at this point to appears this friendship is a "one night stand" - like whatever there is to be gotten out of the connection doesn't seem to be long term. Or maybe it just means that you two are able to continually keep things feeling fresh and new. 55 is a feeling of culmination, the highest that can be achieved. So either you recognize rather quickly that either you don't want a deeper commitment or you're certain you absolutely do (like you want the courtship phase to be over and get right to the Marriage/Duration phase). Either way, your first reading takes precedence meaning that you should take it slow.

 

[PrincessS]

And why would you want to ask the same question again?

an ex of mine is trying to approach me through other people close to me.... a story in constant evolution

 

[PrincessS]

32 is Duration and the first line of any hexagram describes the conditions BEFORE we get into the situation described by the hexagram. Thus you could read 32.1 as describing your connection with this person as being relatively new, like it has yet to have a history to it, it hasn't "endured" anything yet. Line 2 also suggests you are still very much at the beginning, still in the "now" without a history. So as an answer to your question about what is going to happen between for you as a couple it seems to me to be saying that at this point to appears this friendship is a "one night stand" - like whatever there is to be gotten out of the connection doesn't seem to be long term. Or maybe it just means that you two are able to continually keep things feeling fresh and new. 55 is a feeling of culmination, the highest that can be achieved. So either you recognize rather quickly that either you don't want a deeper commitment or you're certain you absolutely do (like you want the courtship phase to be over and get right to the Marriage/Duration phase). Either way, your first reading takes precedence meaning that you should take it slow.

OK so how should I behave? to wait? see what happens? what does it mean I'm at the beginning? and an ex of mine we broke up 4 years ago and he is now returning to my life through other people close to me thank’s

 

[rosada]

Yes, I think 32.1.2 - 55 is saying you have gone as far as you can go and now must wait and see what he does next. At the moment there is nothing more here for you to respond to.

I am not clear what your situation is. Are you asking about an ex and wondering what more will come of your connection? Or are you asking about someone new and the ex is just someone who is still hovering around you? If you are asking about the ex then I think these readings are saying "26. Restraint" and "You've gone as far as you can go with this." If other people in your life bring him up then you should behave as if it was fun while it lasted but you've moved on and he should too, you wish him well etc. etc. 55. specifically says you should not spend time mourning the past.

 

[PrincessS]

Yes, I think 32.1.2 - 55 is saying you have gone as far as you can go and now must wait and see what he does next. At the moment there is nothing more here for you to respond to.

I am not clear what your situation is. Are you asking about an ex and wondering what more will come of your connection? Or are you asking about someone new and the ex is just someone who is still hovering around you? If you are asking about the ex then I think these readings are saying "26. Restraint" and "You've gone as far as you can go with this." If other people in your life bring him up then you should behave as if it was fun while it lasted but you've moved on and he should too, you wish him well etc. etc. 55. specifically says you should not spend time mourning the past.

I asked what will come out of this situation that is creating my ex and to tell you the truth I don't understand why. should I ask a follow-up question?

 

[PrincessS]

Yes, I think 32.1.2 - 55 is saying you have gone as far as you can go and now must wait and see what he does next. At the moment there is nothing more here for you to respond to.

I am not clear what your situation is. Are you asking about an ex and wondering what more will come of your connection? Or are you asking about someone new and the ex is just someone who is still hovering around you? If you are asking about the ex then I think these readings are saying "26. Restraint" and "You've gone as far as you can go with this." If other people in your life bring him up then you should behave as if it was fun while it lasted but you've moved on and he should too, you wish him well etc. etc. 55. specifically says you should not spend time mourning the past.

I'll explain to you what's going on. for some months I have been dating a boyfriend (an acquaintance of my ex) my 4 year old ex and for months that intrudes on this story (he has been in a relationship for 2 years) for what I wanted to understand what was going on. what will happen'? hexagram 26 uc
I asked the question differently 32.1.2> 55
I asked why is he doing this? hexagram 48.3.4> 47 I state that I am very confused and I don't really know how to behave .. remember I asked the ching if I had to contact him and of hexagram 15 but I don't remember the lines

 

[diamanda]

I asked what will happen between us - 26 unchanged
Nothing much. This guy is a large beast, too difficult to tame. You can go out for dinner, but not much more.

 

[PrincessS]

I asked what will happen between us - 26 unchanged
Nothing much. This guy is a large beast, too difficult to tame. You can go out for dinner, but not much more.

what do you think of 48.3.4> 47? question: why does it behave like this? big beast in the sense that he's a bad boy?

 

[diamanda]

why is he doing this? hexagram 48.3.4 > 47
If you look at this overall cast, the well (48) dries out (47). There is water, but he's not well in his head (48.3). Trying to repair the well (48.4), but since he's not well in his head it won't work out (47).
Yes that's what I meant by big beast, perhaps a guy who's too popular.

 

[PrincessS]

why is he doing this? hexagram 48.3.4 > 47
If you look at this overall cast, the well (48) dries out (47). There is water, but he's not well in his head (48.3). Trying to repair the well (48.4), but since he's not well in his head it won't work out (47).
Yes that's what I meant by big beast, perhaps a guy who's too popular.

a psychopath! thank you very much diamanda at this point I think I understand I admit that it had put me in a lot of confusion because I loved him but I cannot indulge the whims of a psychopath thank you very much diamanda for your patience