Thank you Rosada. I called at Age Concern and they advised me to either ask my son if he is happy in the situation or ask my other son to do so, if he says he is not happy to request his permission to consult the head of the care team that she is employed by. I am never left alone with my son so will ask my other son. I wrote a message yesterday which doesn't appear to have got through. A number of my messages are not getting through either so I don't know what the problem is. I believe now that this so-called partner is aware that the relationship has run it's course and is determined to hang on, her financial situation would go down with a bang without him. God and the Angels will take care of the situation so I will leave it to them. Thank you again Rosada.