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I am interested to know your interpretation about this cast.
I asked yi "is there any hope that I will have a long lasting relationship"? 11 <3> 19
The answer seems like "don't worry everything will be alright".
I have searched on the forum too
There is an inner conflict inside me. I want to make a relationship with someone that he could be the father of my children but I am so scared that I will be hurt more.
Oh my God- what an answer!
Compare your answer to Trojina's.
Why oh why would you say that to someone ???? Why ??
You're in a very responsible position here you know with an extremely strong power differential on poor unsuspecting querents. Why do you think it's ok to demolish someone's hopes dreams or expectations?
And the patronising 'life is good' comment after it.
It's not the first time I'v been horrified to read the responses but in this case I'm just stunned.
Thanks for the thoughtful and kind explanation. It helps to understand the context yes and I think I sensed your response was an attempt to soften the blow. But it doesn't really excuse someone annihilating a person like that not in this context. That meaning is hanging there as an explanation of the cast and in this case it's not obvious that it's not a true meaning. It would be impossible to discern that this was a personal and weary response to someone who was perceived as not listening
In this medium it's not particularly easy to pick up on the nuance of sarcasm or other intended meanings without taking it literally and in any case it's not necessary to reply when the emotional content of that reply might be both unhelpful and so easily misconstrued.
Even if this forum appears as a light weight divination site
people are to a greater or lesser degree quite engaged in bringing their problems issues and anxieties here for discussion or clarification. That makes them vulnerable. It's all very well if there's an expert who has a heap of knowledge about the hexagrams and is tired that the querant just doesn't get it.
It's not really ok to just vent like that, you don't know what the consequences will be and you're taking an impulsive and unnecessary risk with someone unknown person's sensibilities. You don't know what the impact will be. These are sensitive issues, it would be better not to say anything.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).