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I´m afraid it´s only me and him, unless he is seeing someone else, that I don´t know.The 'players' in this situation should be identified. (You are one of them)
There are at least 3 people in the reading and, possibly 4.
1-Younger F & older M
2-Younger M & older F.
Which one are you, to him?
28 by itself is too intense and
note-56 situations do not long endure.
Nice reading, didn´t consider it.Someone was expecting a new growth in their love life but ends up not attached to any outcome, they are happy whatever happens.
I´m afraid it´s only me and him, unless he is seeing someone else, that I don´t know.
I´m older than him, btw.
Not really. And there is no other man on my side, well, I like other people, but there is no one "official" in my life.So, you are not fully aware of the younger female in the picture yet.
One day you will.I never read Yi that literally.
This saved me lot of hassles.. and it is so impressive when it is humorous, indicating a location or refering to the body in TCM.It is a good practice to take the literal lines literally at first.
I saw a post from Trojina (sorry, I don´t know how to quote so I just copied it) regarding Line 2 of 28:One day you will.
It is a good practice to take the literal lines literally at first.
The metaphor/simile lines are something else. (61.6 for example)
See my post about a reading that contained 28.2.5: You'll see all four people were present.
28.2.5.6 (56) reading & events
Sharing a daily reading to teach, not needing help with the reading. It is interesting for a few reasons, one of which is how all individual lines were present, but all line auguries did not apply (though one did!) You'll see. Whenever I wake up feeling any odd sensations in my body, I do a...www.onlineclarity.co.uk
Sure, why not?Moss elk, could it be that Marina will find another suitor?
Like maybe she is the female in both lines?As she asked if there is something she could do. Maybe the answer is reassuring her?
I don´t like older men, not even my age, so I´m pretty sure "an older BF" is not going to happen. Regarding 62, my question was "Is there anything I could do?", so I guess any action I could take on my side is not going to affect the situacion, I mean, he will call (or not) independently of my actions which, according to 62, won´t be effective.Sure, why not?
Nature has generally made you lady-folk quite beautiful, after all.
Like maybe she is the female in both lines?
Possibly.
If that were the case it would mean her next BF is older than her.
BUT, in my experience, many things I ask about give a birds eye view of the situation, instead of answering the question directly as asked. BUT then again sometimes the answers ARE direct answers.
I should point out again how we don't get what we want in the resulting hex 62,
Which led me to my 1st interpretation.
In any case, I met him ona dating app, so for sure there is "other people" around, not only a third or a fourth person but many other ;-)Sure, why not?
Nature has generally made you lady-folk quite beautiful, after all.
Like maybe she is the female in both lines?
Possibly.
If that were the case it would mean her next BF is older than her.
BUT, in my experience, many things I ask about give a birds eye view of the situation, instead of answering the question directly as asked. BUT then again sometimes the answers ARE direct answers.
I should point out again how we don't get what we want in the resulting hex 62,
Which led me to my 1st interpretation.
There are at least 3 people in the reading and, possibly 4.
1-Younger F & older M
2-Younger M & older F.
Which one are you, to him?
This is also quite obvious, or at least possible. I mean, in any relationship when things don´t work the two of them could find better partners in the future, I mean this applies for everyone not only me, hahahaha3 if we consider either the man or the woman has moved from one line to the other.
But if we consider there are 4 people here as litteral interpretation of the lines, there is two known man and woman M & F, and one possible woman X, then there is another possible man too Y?
M goes with a younger woman X (Line 2), and F goes with another younger man Y (Line 5).
It is too objective here, I think her intuition could be more valid for her.
Well unless the question involves 3 or 4 people there is no good reason the answer would be about 3 or 4 people. Not all questions involve people at all, one might be asking about an exercise programme, one's pet gerbil, the car, a holiday, clearly you can't always take it literally though on occasion it might be literal.For her it has nothing to do with third or four people.
I met a guy a couple of weeks ago. We are very different people, very different ways to see life. Despite of it I really liked him. He said he would call me after our date but he didn't (not yet, at least). I asked Yi if there is anything I could do to make him approach again and I got 28.2.5.
My reading is "what has to happen will happen no matter what I do". So I decided to wait for him to call as he said he would.
Thanks, Trojina, very helpful and clarifier, as always.Well unless the question involves 3 or 4 people there is no good reason the answer would be about 3 or 4 people. Not all questions involve people at all, one might be asking about an exercise programme, one's pet gerbil, the car, a holiday, clearly you can't always take it literally though on occasion it might be literal.
My impression of this answer, because I look at the whole reading to get an impression is as follows.
The two lines here look to me like two options, 2 ways to go. That is where 2 lines moves one can think 'or' or 'and'. That is there's an option described between 2 lines or an 'and' additional factors or sometimes just a progression.
Here my impression is there's 2 options, this can be the beginnings of something in line 2, something to develop and blossom or it could have just been a one off, line 5, beautiful in it's own right but not necessarily going anywhere.
I also note change patterns as an underlying theme and here they are 29 yang pattern/30 yin pattern. The issue, the central tension in the question is between feelings in all their unpredictable depths and thinking, clear seeing and perception of things. Feelings might hold sway at times and other times clear thinking. The question that is raised here is is whoever 62 refers to here, possibly you, maybe him, I don't know, but the relating hexagram shows the overall ambience and here it is one of great care and circumspection. In 62 the little bird flies low, is not ambitious, is just trying to make the journey and so being exceedingly mindful and cautious. This is the opposite of a time of 'throwing caution to the wind'.
So the reading to me, as an impression anyway, is someone being very careful about which path to go for line 2 or line 5. That's the difference between something developing (line 2) and a one off (line 5). I would say a fair amount of thought (30) has gone into this on both your parts, thoughts that are erring on the side of caution(62) because of concerns perhaps about how this can be sustained, whether one or both of you has the stamina or emotional resources to go for more or to continue.
We ought not to forget we are in 28, Great Exceeding' an extreme time where one has to alter the way things are in order to keep above water so to speak. That with 62 would be 'Great exceeding's Small exceeding'. Perhaps I could write it as a sentence of 'Great Pressure's Great Carefulness' . You can play with making sentences out of the titles of 2 hexagrams, that's a good way to get a feel for what this is about.
In answer to you question if there is anything you can do to make him approach again I think perhaps clearly mentally (yin pattern 30) assessing what could be too much either for him or for you and be open with him about that or drawing him out to talking about how going ahead with this potential new relationship might be too much for him to cope with.
Now there may well be other's involved in the situation, I don't know how of course, whether he is involved elsewhere or anything like that. 62 certainly is a time to reckon with seriousness of things, you can't just do what feels okay, there's things to take into account, to be careful of. So I wouldn't deny this could literally be referring to others in the situation but if not others there appears to be a need to get out from a situation of pressure (28). Sometimes old situations of great pressure change and give rise to new life (line 2) other times they give a burst of glory beautiful in their own right (line 5). There is caution and worry here I'd think and so if you wanted to try to draw him into more contact I think you might have to reckon with all the things that hold him back in quite a sort of logical or clear way (30 yin pattern) and a careful way. 28 and 62 together look like less than plain sailing with the wind in your hair, more 'let's list what we can manage here'. However both lines in 28 you have received hold some promise even if limited in line 5.
Your reading is a description of your context, so maybe more people are involved if we take it litterally. Just playing with it; because if 3, you are changing position, if it is 4 it is a divination the next one will be younger.This is also quite obvious, or at least possible. I mean, in any relationship when things don´t work the two of them could find better partners in the future, I mean this applies for everyone not only me, hahahaha
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