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44 Unchanging - Divorce Settlement

beatpoet

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Sigh. Been in a very protracted divorce, the whole thing is on year 16. Yes, you read that right.

First half (because it's taking place on 2 different continents) is complete. Second half involves a piece of property. He's a businessman of great craft, experience, and skill. I am not. Lol. He is not ethical, and I am. I refuse to lie under oath, he has no issues whatsoever. Hence the divorce. Hence the protracted divorce.

Recently, he was forced by the Supreme Court in country 1 to settle the judgment which he had been held in contempt for 4 years. Yes, I won on the basis that he was unable to probe his case which was based on false grounds. My counter-petition was granted on the basis that I had substantiated the grounds. So I am by law divorced, however ...

Part 2 Country 2. Neither of us has yet filed for missed assets, but specifically a piece of valuable property in Country 2 that he did not list in his original plaint (because he had attempted to get a default judgment). Before *finally* settling part 1 (only two weeks ago), he had put forth a deal to settle everything at once -- means to end the entire matter which included missed assets. In that offer, saying he low-balled the settlement amount is an understatement. I refused it on principle.

I am tired, but not vanquished at this point. I asked Yi: Will he cut a deal with me (as in will he reply with a counter offer and settle this whole thing)?

44 Unchanging

Atm, I am taking this to mean he won't on the basis of "don't meet a powerful woman." In other words, no.

Am I on the wrong track altogether? The thought of *more* is almost more than I can bear.

Trust me any help would be so appreciated.
 
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Who's in the stronger position? Whoever it is they know the other won't take the offer.
Not sure if that actually answers your question maybe just describes the situation.
 
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I'm taking this to mean, unfortunately, that you might not be able to get a better deal than this out of him and that it will save you suffering to just take it and walk. That said, this is very important and you should probably get some experienced perspective on this hex (and some good legal advice?) Commenting mostly so that the thread will stay up high and others will chime in!
 
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beatpoet

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Who's in the stronger position? Whoever it is they no the other won't take the offer.
Not sure if that actually answers your question maybe just describes the situation.
Becalm:

I really appreciate the reply. You know this is a tough one to answer.
Sigh. Been in a very protracted divorce, the whole thing is on year 16. Yes, you read that right.

First half (because it's taking place on 2 different continents) is complete. Second half involves a piece of property. He's a businessman of great craft, experience, and skill. I am not. Lol. He is not ethical, and I am. I refuse to lie under oath, he has no issues whatsoever. Hence the divorce. Hence the protracted divorce.

Recently, he was forced by the Supreme Court in country 1 to settle the judgment which he had been held in contempt for 4 years. Yes, I won on the basis that he was unable to probe his case which was based on false grounds. My counter-petition was granted on the basis that I had substantiated the grounds. So I am by law divorced, however ...

Part 2 Country 2. Neither of us has yet filed for missed assets, but specifically a piece of valuable property in Country 2 that he did not list in his original plaint (because he had attempted to get a default judgment). Before *finally* settling part 1 (only two weeks ago), he had put forth a deal to settle everything at once -- means to end the entire matter which included missed assets. In that offer, saying he low-balled the settlement amount is an understatement. I refused it on principle.

I am tired, but not vanquished at this point. I asked Yi: Will he cut a deal with me (as in will he reply with a counter offer and settle this whole thing)?

44 Unchanging

Atm, I am taking this to mean he won't on the basis of "don't meet a powerful woman." In other words, no.

Am I on the wrong track altogether? The thought of *more* is almost more than I can bear.

Trust me any help would be so appreciated.
Becalm:

I really appreciate the reply. You know this is a tough one to answer. It's a GREAT question. I would say, net on net, he's in the better position overall. I cannot say that with 100 percent confidence because it depends how you're looking at it.

Beatpoet.
 
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Becalm:

I really appreciate the reply. You know this is a tough one to answer.

Becalm:

I really appreciate the reply. You know this is a tough one to answer. It's a GREAT question. I would say, net on net, he's in the better position overall. I cannot say that with 100 percent confidence because it depends how you're looking at it.

Beatpoet.
Your perspective is probably what you need to look at hahaha - probs a tricky situation.
 

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hi beatpoet,

oh, Hex #44! that's turned up in many readings for me lately. i find it very puzzling and ambiguous. good luck with your situation!

best, j
 
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