Clarity,
Office 17622,
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London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
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I asked the Iching, please give me a picture of how others see me. Response: hexagram 38.4 --> 41
This stood out to me as true bc my ex husband after about 4 years together once said to me straight, "You have the most unbelievable bad luck of anyone I've ever heard of! Sh*t that happens regularly in your life usually onyl happens in bad movies."People see you as a person who has had bad luck...
This describes almost identically the kind of mind twisting things I've been attempting to cope with recently! First, let me say I'm really sorry to hear you've been through some of that. I'm finding it's terribly confusing and to "open" to criticism folks, it feels like simple madness.As about various weird people passing on weird judgement about you... I once had a chronic alcoholic blaming me for their alchocol addiction (!?!), a certified psychopath telling me that I should see a psychologist (!) and various other such 'cute' incidents. I read once (i forget where but it stayed with me) - if someone comes along and tells you: "you are 3 metres tall" - well, you really know that you're not.
Human beings project their own character flaws and see them in others. So when people think they are talking about you, they are really talking about themselves.
In reality, none of us is qualified to judge another, because our perceptions are so skewed ... and our expressions are so off-base.
As for your admirable qualities, which are in abundant supply, you will meet people who will see you for the good person you really are.
...then the attacker's character, motivations, and actions become beyond reproach. The best defense is a surprising and chronic onslaught of offense.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).